When You Meet Your First Great Friend | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

When You Meet Your First Great Friend

The feelings of appreciation that stems from a first, true friendship.

12
When You Meet Your First Great Friend
Klondike Kate

When I was in high school, I never really had “that person.” The person that you could chug Surge with, make peculiar sounds with that cause people to look at you both thinking something is wrong, and the one that can always turn into an unqualified therapist. I met my first great friend at work and about six months into having my job, we became really close.

My friend and I are fairly inseparable now. I’m incredibly grateful to have found her now. We both have pretty similar schedules so we can do things like going out to dinner and hitting up the local shopping malls. It’s a fun time to work with your friend as well because you always have each others backs and are able to help each other.

I know that when I first started serving at the restaurant I work at, she was one of my biggest supporters and always checked on me if I needed help. Literally, one of the first days I was on the floor she always asked if I was doing okay or if I was too stressed out and needed help running food or checking on tables. Never in my mind did I ever think I would get that lucky with a friend. Not to mention, we always have a really good time together. I never really got that feeling from people I hung out with in my high school years. I never had a friend that I could talk to and relate with so much. I would definitely say that she is one of the main reasons I love my job.

It’s the people like my friend here that make my job so wonderful and make it like a second home for people like me who didn’t necessarily fit in most places. I can say that in high school, I never fit in with my classmates. I’ve had a different job before and I can’t say that I was ever really comfortable there. But my work holds my second family.

I love the fact that my friend is so goofy and that she is so endlessly kind. I love that my friend is completely herself and comfortable being who she is. I love that my friend and I have such a wonderful connection...we just seem to get one another.

We also have a habit of Snapchat storytimes. We will religiously have 130 second Snapchat rails of our day or issues going on around us. It’s comforting because we are always able to talk each other down or talk each other up no matter what scenario.

Being so close to her, I’ve realized how wonderful true friendship can be when you bond with the right human being. You always have that person that you can text and ask for advice from, the person that is always down to hang, and the person that you can have the most odd inside jokes with.

To you, my wonderful friend, I want to say that I completely appreciate you being there from every up and down. I am so inherently grateful to call you someone that I can see myself being best buddies with for a very long time. My heart is fuller now that we have a strong, established friendship.

With as many cyber hearts and smiley faces as I can lend you (<3 , :)) I wanna thank you for always being there. I know I’m always here for you in advance with open arms and loads of advice.


P.S. - Thank you for always listening to my psycho babble :) <3
Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

A Few Thoughts Every College Freshman Has

The transition into adulthood is never easy

13879
Mays Island
Courtney Jones

Today I started my third week of college at Minnesota State Moorhead. I have survived welcome week, finding my classes on the first day, and being an awkward loner in the dining hall. Even though I have yet to be here for a month, I have already experienced many thoughts and problems that only a new college student can relate to.

Keep Reading...Show less
college

"Make sure to get involved when you're in college!"

We've all heard some variation of this phrase, whether it came from parents, other family members, friends, RAs, or college-related articles. And, like many clichés, it's true for the most part. Getting involved during your college years can help you make friends, build your resume, and feel connected to your campus. However, these commitments can get stressful if you're dealing with personal issues, need to work, or aren't sure how to balance classes and everything else going on during the semester.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

9 Reasons Why Friends Are Essential In College

College without friends is like peanut butter without jelly.

6049
Bridgaline Liberati and friends
Bridgaline Liberati

In college, one of the essential things to have is friends. Yes, textbooks, a laptop, and other school supplies are important but friends are essential. Friends are that support system everybody needs. The more friends you have the better the support system you have. But you also have someone to share experiences with. And don’t settle for just one or two friends because 8 out of 10 times they are busy and you are studying all alone. Or they have other friend groups that do not include you. Don’t settle for just one or two friends; make as many friends as you can. After the first couple of weeks of college, most friend groups are set and you may be without friends.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Power of Dressing Up

Why it pays to leave the hoodie at home.

4481
sneakers and heels
Sister | Brother Style - Word Press

For a moment your world is spinning. The phone alarm has just scared you awake and you’re flooded by daunting thoughts of the day ahead. You have three assignments due and little time to work on them because of your job. You’re running late because you’ve hit snooze one to many times after yesterday’s long hours. You dizzily reach for a hoodie, craving its comfort, and rush for a speedy exit, praying you will have time to pick up coffee. Does this sound familiar?

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Signs You Live At The Library As Told by 'Parks And Recreation'

A few signs that you may live in the library whether you'd like to admit it or not.

3943
brown wooden book shelves with books

Finals week is upon us. It is a magical time of year during which college students everywhere flock to the library in attempt to learn a semester's worth of knowledge in only a week. For some students, it's their first time in the library all semester, maybe ever. Others have slaved away many nights under the fluorescent lights, and are slightly annoyed to find their study space being invaded by amateurs. While these newbies wander aimlessly around the first floor, hopelessly trying to find a table, the OGs of the library are already on the third floor long tables deep into their studies. Here is a few signs that you may live in the library, whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments