Meeting your boyfriend's siblings | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Entertainment

Meeting your boyfriend's siblings

The fabulous four

1184
Meeting your boyfriend's siblings


One of the hardest challenges I believe you face in a relationship is acceptance. When I say acceptance, I don't mean between you and your significant other. That part of the relationship should already be clear. When I mention acceptance, I am referring to the nerve-racking and inevitable moment when you finally meet his or her family.

Family is everything. Having said that, wouldn't you want them to accept those who become a part of your life?

Pictured above is my boyfriend (center) and his four beautiful siblings (try to guess who they are). All of which are very diverse in personality and appearance. This makes for an especially challenging plan when laying down the foundation for connection.

The sports lover who changed his name

Jack is the youngest. John is the youngest. I mean, wait...what? Well, his real name is John, but everyone refers to him as Jack after an older generation of family members called by the same name. It may be confusing, but at least you have two chances to get it right.

Having a sporty background as well, it was easy to find common ground. Not to mention our interest in the strings. My ukulele, which did most of the work, made for good conversation. In conclusion, sibling one, check!

The older but not older sister

Catherine is the second youngest, though she looks older than she really is. Catherine was one of the quickest connections I made when I arrived. It wasn't hard to distinguish her qualities. With her manner of words and collections of classy apparel, she will have no problem becoming independent and individualistic.

Her sophistication reminds me of when I was in high school, and our outlooks are very similar when it comes to independence and self-realization. Sibling two, check!

The "non-stereotyped" blonde

Margaret, or "Maggie" for short, is graduating high school and hopes to pursue a career in working with children. She is actually the reason I came to visit. I would have sooner or later, but this celebration made for a good excuse to finally meet everyone.

Maggie is a very defined voice. She was the one to leave a small note on the table when I arrived, which read, "Welcome Shannon :)" She was also the one who asked a million questions. I love a million questions, so I was eager to answer. Sibling three, check!

The animal enthusiast

Anne was the one sibling I was most nervous about. She is my age, which gave us a little wiggle room for similarities. However, she has a set mind, one in which categorizes new faces without a second thought.

Her passion as an aspiring zoologist is like nothing I have ever seen before. And when it comes to animals, I am all ears, as I once wanted to be a veterinarian. Because her passion is so strong, it was fascinating to hear her story and her plans for the future. However, her love for snakes might be a little too much for me...just kidding, Anne! Sibling four, a hopeful check!

Accepting acceptance

Avoid trying too hard to be accepted. If you do, you will scare people away with a false face. Accept who you are, and the rest will follow. Now it is time for my boyfriend to meet my siblings. This should be fun!


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

A Few Thoughts Every College Freshman Has

The transition into adulthood is never easy

22751
Mays Island
Courtney Jones

Today I started my third week of college at Minnesota State Moorhead. I have survived welcome week, finding my classes on the first day, and being an awkward loner in the dining hall. Even though I have yet to be here for a month, I have already experienced many thoughts and problems that only a new college student can relate to.

Keep Reading...Show less
Students walking on a sunny college campus with trees and buildings.

"Make sure to get involved when you're in college!"

We've all heard some variation of this phrase, whether it came from parents, other family members, friends, RAs, or college-related articles. And, like many clichés, it's true for the most part. Getting involved during your college years can help you make friends, build your resume, and feel connected to your campus. However, these commitments can get stressful if you're dealing with personal issues, need to work, or aren't sure how to balance classes and everything else going on during the semester.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

9 Reasons Why Friends Are Essential In College

College without friends is like peanut butter without jelly.

9515
Bridgaline Liberati and friends
Bridgaline Liberati

In college, one of the essential things to have is friends. Yes, textbooks, a laptop, and other school supplies are important but friends are essential. Friends are that support system everybody needs. The more friends you have the better the support system you have. But you also have someone to share experiences with. And don’t settle for just one or two friends because 8 out of 10 times they are busy and you are studying all alone. Or they have other friend groups that do not include you. Don’t settle for just one or two friends; make as many friends as you can. After the first couple of weeks of college, most friend groups are set and you may be without friends.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Power of Dressing Up

Why it pays to leave the hoodie at home.

6876
sneakers and heels
Sister | Brother Style - Word Press

For a moment your world is spinning. The phone alarm has just scared you awake and you’re flooded by daunting thoughts of the day ahead. You have three assignments due and little time to work on them because of your job. You’re running late because you’ve hit snooze one to many times after yesterday’s long hours. You dizzily reach for a hoodie, craving its comfort, and rush for a speedy exit, praying you will have time to pick up coffee. Does this sound familiar?

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Signs You Live At The Library As Told by 'Parks And Recreation'

A few signs that you may live in the library whether you'd like to admit it or not.

5905
brown wooden book shelves with books

Finals week is upon us. It is a magical time of year during which college students everywhere flock to the library in attempt to learn a semester's worth of knowledge in only a week. For some students, it's their first time in the library all semester, maybe ever. Others have slaved away many nights under the fluorescent lights, and are slightly annoyed to find their study space being invaded by amateurs. While these newbies wander aimlessly around the first floor, hopelessly trying to find a table, the OGs of the library are already on the third floor long tables deep into their studies. Here is a few signs that you may live in the library, whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments