I have learned many things living overseas. I have gotten the chance to be in places and countries most people would only dream of seeing. Here are some things I've learned living in two third-world countries:
1. Learn to be humble.
You know the saying "You don't know what you got 'til it's gone?" That saying is very true, especially when you are living overseas. You constantly see people living worse off than you are. You definitely have a change of heart when you live overseas.
2. Learn to serve others.
This goes hand in hand with the previous point. When you serve others, you serve Christ, not for yourself but because it pleases Him. I had the opportunity to serve others when I lived in the Dominican Republic. My family had decided, on Christmas Eve, to deliver our hand-me-down clothes to kids who lived in the ghettos near our house, I'll never forget the look on the first boy's face, pure and utter joy! I was so happy that we could give him that gift, small as it was. It may not have been huge to us, but to him, it probably was a blessing. We continued to drive for hours, giving out outfits until there were more people than there were clothes. I will always carry the memory of that first Christmas Eve in my heart.
3. Protect the Earth
Living overseas, I have seen some of the most beautiful places and animals on this planet, from crystal caves to clear blue oceans with thousands of species of sea life. However, for all of its beauties the Earth has some beasts too, like oil spills and deforested areas. If we want to keep living here, we have to protect it. The Earth is our home, let's treat her like one.
4. Embrace different cultures.
In order to more fully experience the place in which are visiting and/or living, embrace its culture. Wear traditional clothing, enjoy new and creative foods, go out and learn traditional dances, and learn the languages, if there are some. Go to places of tourism within the country and learn their history.
5. Represent your family with pride and respect at school and work.
Whether you have traveled for a parent's job or your own, always keep in mind that you aren't just there to have fun, you are there to represent your home country. Don't do anything that would bring shame to you or your family. If you are still in school, you may have to wear uniforms; don't degrade them in any way. Those 'yes, sir.' and 'yes, ma'am' phrases don't go unnoticed. A little respect for your elders can go a long way as well; teachers and bosses notice when you treat them with the respect they deserve. I still use this in college and all of the professors notice. Thanks, Mom, and Dad!
These a just a few things I have learned when I lived overseas. The experiences I learned will be with me forever!
