As this summer comes to a close and your friends start preparing to head their separate ways, I'd say it's as good a time as any to start making some memories.
The summer before starting college should be one full of friends, family, and overall, fun. I know it's cheesy, but let's face it; it's very likely that this is the last time you'll be in the same vicinity as all of your high school mates: friends change, people move, and opportunities arise.
However, this shouldn't be a sad time. It's a time to celebrate the beginning of a new phase of your life. Luckily, if you have a few days before your move-in date or a few weeks, it's never too late to start making memories that will last well into your college years and beyond.
1. Make a list.
I realize this may seem counterproductive in that no one wants to spend their last days scribbling lists that they'll never have time to complete. I get it, but humor me; what if you just wrote down the names of the people you want to visit with or the places you want to go? It doesn't have to be detailed or lengthy, and in a few minutes, you'd have an abbreviated itinerary for the rest of the summer. That way, whenever you're in need of something to do, you'll have a one-stop shop for ideas and adventures.
2. Make some plans.
It's time to break out the phone books ladies and gents (or just open up your contacts app, whatever works). But seriously, think of anyone you'll miss when you're away and just shoot them a text. It doesn't have to be anything fancy, a simple "let's do something" will work. Chances are, they were thinking about reaching out to you too.
3. Stop making excuses.
Sure, it's much easier to just assume that everyone is busy or working or just doesn't want to see you, but that is often just not the case. So stop holding back from making plans with someone you know you'll miss in the long run just because you think they could maybe, possibly, already have plans. Life is too short to make excuses.
The majority of your friends are in the same boat as you, and it's always easier to make the first move rather than wait around for them to invite you out. As every middle-aged woman in the world says, "if you want something done right, do it yourself." Get out there and make some long-lasting memories before you turn the page to a new chapter.
