Make New Friends But Keep The Old | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Entertainment

Make New Friends But Keep The Old

Even though we're in college, we shouldn't lose touch with our friends back home.

34
Make New Friends But Keep The Old
Pexels

As you go away to college you will make new friends and hang out with different people. It may get harder to keep in touch with your friends back home, because you're busy and they're busy and sometimes your schedules just don't match up. But, they're your friend and they have been there with you for a decent part of your life, it wouldn't be right to just let your friendship fade because now things require a bit more effort. So, yes, feel free to make new friends. Heck, go and make a new best friend. But please don't forget about your old friends. And, after reading this title I'm sure some of you recognize it. It's actually part of a Girl Scout's song which reads:

"Make new friends,
but keep the old.
One is silver,
the other is gold.
A circle is round,
it has no end.
That's how long,
I will be your friend."

You're around new people in college, your horizons have broadened. You are bound to develop friendships and most of these friendships will in fact last a lifetime. Or as the song says, some of these friendships will last as long as a circle, because "A circle is round, it has no end."

No friendship or relationship will work without a little effort. It's a little give and a little take. Try and set up times that work for you and them, and keep trying. Keep trying until you've exhausted all possible resources to keeping in touch. It's not worth it to lose someone that once meant so much to you. Sure there will be people that you just don't keep in touch with anymore, and that may be because they were only your friend because you saw them at school everyday. But, the ones that really matter, those friends you truly cared about, push a little bit harder with them to keep the friendship going.

And if you get the chance, introduce your old best friend to your new best friend. They already have one thing in common, that's you. So don't give up quite yet. Make your new friends, but also keep your old friends.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Gilmore Girls
Hypable

In honor of Mother’s Day, I have been thinking of all the things my mom does for my family and me. Although I couldn’t write nearly all of them, here are a few things that moms do for us.

They find that shirt that’s right in front of you, but just you can’t seem to find.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

10 Reasons To Thank Your Best Friend

Take the time to thank that one friend in your life you will never let go of.

4903
Thank You on wooden blocks

1. Thank you for being the one I can always count on to be honest.

A true friend will tell you if the shirt is ugly, or at least ask to borrow it and "accidentally" burn it.

2. Thank you for accepting me for who I am.

A best friend will love you regardless of the stale french fries you left on the floor of your car, or when you had lice in 8th grade and no one wanted to talk to you.

Keep Reading...Show less
sick student
StableDiffusion

Everybody gets sick once in a while, but getting sick while in college is the absolute worst. You're away from home and your mom who can take care of you and all you really want to do is just be in your own bed. You feel like you will have never-ending classwork to catch up on if you miss class, so you end up going sick and then it just takes longer to get better. Being sick in college is really tough and definitely not a fun experience. Here are the 15 stages that everyone ends up going through when they are sick at college.

Keep Reading...Show less
kid
Janko Ferlic
Do as I say, not as I do.

Your eyes widen in horror as you stare at your phone. Beads of sweat begin to saturate your palm as your fingers tremble in fear. The illuminated screen reads, "Missed Call: Mom."

Growing up with strict parents, you learn that a few things go unsaid. Manners are everything. Never talk back. Do as you're told without question. Most importantly, you develop a system and catch on to these quirks that strict parents have so that you can play their game and do what you want.

Keep Reading...Show less
friends
tv.com

"Friends" maybe didn’t have everything right or realistic all the time, but they did have enough episodes to create countless reaction GIFs and enough awesomeness to create, well, the legacy they did. Something else that is timeless, a little rough, but memorable? Living away from the comforts of home. Whether you have an apartment, a dorm, your first house, or some sort of residence that is not the house you grew up in, I’m sure you can relate to most of these!

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments