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Loving A Girl Who Has Had Her Heart Broken

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Loving A Girl Who Has Had Her Heart Broken
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Loving a girl who has had her heart broken before is not an easy task. Giving your all to someone only to have it end disastrous will take a serious toll on how a girl views her future relationships. Here are some things to remember if you take on such a challenging, yet worth-while task.

1. She is going to doubt you. And herself. And Everything.

A girl who has been heartbroken is not easily convinced of feelings. She is going to question whether you actually do have feelings for her, or if you're going to use her and throw her to the side like she's nothing. But don't take it personally, she's going to second guess everything, you included. It is going to take a while to build up what he broke down.

2. Sometimes she may not even act like she likes you.

She isn't going to let her guard down easy. It is going to take lots of time and affection to bring down the wall the last guy built up. Constantly reassure her that you aren't going to leave, and that it's okay to show her feelings.

3. Her confidence is probably close to non-existent.

You are going to have to really try to build up her confidence. A heartbreak heavily affects how a girl sees herself. When a relationship ends, girls often ask themselves, "Was I not pretty enough? Not smart enough? Not skinny enough?" She's not going to take your compliments, but she will hear them. Eventually, thy will get through to her.

4. She may appear needy.

In the opposite reaction of number two, she may be super clingy. Or she may be super clingy and not show it on the outside. She probably wants to spend every second of the day with you and wants you to give her all your attention. Give her plenty of attention and reassure her of your feelings.

5. She needs love.

She needs to be shown that she matters and she's worthy of love. Her mind isn't quite right, and she needs to be reminded that she is cared for at all times. Even when you fight, make sure she knows. You can never say "I love you" too much, and this is especially true with those with broken hearts.

Girls with broken hearts have to learn how to love again. They take every image and memory of love they have and throw it all out. If you choose to take on a heartbroken girl, you will have to work a little harder to get through to her. It is a strenuous task, but the love you'll get in return is so worth it.

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