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What It's Like To Love Someone With An ENFJ Personality

We are always in love for the long run.

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Extroverted. Intuitive. Feeling. Judging. We are natural born leaders; full of passion and charisma.

Loving us can be an adventure full of endless love. We are in it for the long run. When being in a relationship, we always think of the future, so don't expect to just get with us for a couple weeks and go on your merry way. We want more, and are always committed for the long haul. A casual relationship isn't something we can do. When we love, we love hard and we do it with full intentions of commitment.

We constantly ask if something is wrong. Always checking on you to make sure you're okay, and that we are still okay. We always want to know if there's anything else we can do, because we love helping people; especially helping the person we love for absolutely anything. Loving us comes with constant check ups, constant "do you need anything?" We will always be there for you, through thick and thin.

We possess such a high degree of empathy, always seeing the best in everyone. So sometimes we put too much trust in people, and some may take advantage of that. Love us and remind us we can trust each other.

We don't need a lot to make us happy. Seeing you happy makes us happy. We get so much joy out of helping others smile. With that being said, we are loyal to the core.

Sometimes, we need affirmation, even though we may not ask for it. Sometimes we are so focused on pleasing others we forget about our own needs. So giving us some sweet words and love is always a good thing.

We are known to be dependable lovers. Sometimes that may come off needy but know it's because we just want to be with you. We love quality time. If you make time for us, we will be forever grateful and know that you truly want to be in this relationship too.

We feel most at home when we are in a relationship. You become our home, our constant and our comfort and I think that's a pretty amazing thing. We take relationships seriously and if you do too then it's the perfect match.

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