Recently, my family and I were hit with some less than flattering things that just about knocked us off our feet. It was stressful, nerve-racking, and just about tore us all apart from the inside out. Dealing with the things that we have dealt with is no easy feat, and I know that lesser people would have cracked under pressure. I mean goodness, we almost didn't come out alive.
Through everything that has happened in the past month, my mother has been one of the strongest people in the world. She has handled so much on her plate, and she took it like a champ. When I started this article it was supposed to be how to get through hard times, but now that I think about it, it should really just be how amazing mothers are.
My mother has been by my side physically and mentally through so many things. It's truly inspiring how strong she is. I know for certain I would not be here without her. She picks me up when I'm down. She talks me through any crisis. So, I thought I would tell everyone how to keep mothers as amazing as mine.
Well, for starters: your mother has bad days too, and when that happens you have to learn to grow up. She can't always be catering to your needs. She has her own, and some people don't know when to act their age. Whenever you get the chance you should take care of your mother. She's a goddess. She deserves to be treated like one.
Mothers are insane, I know that. Why do you think that is though? She didn't buy the grey hair, she earned it. From you. She picked up your toys, she fed you, she cleaned up after you, and she did everything she could to make sure you grow up right.
I know there were times that you thought, "This is stupid, why can't I do this or that." "Why is she being so mean today?" Well, more than likely she saw something you didn't (because contrary to your belief, moms do know just about everything), and she was trying to protect you.
Your mother should be your best friend. So act like it. Love her unconditionally, and respect her above all else. If you don't respect your mother, you'll have respect issues your whole life.
When she gives you that look like she's had a day from hell, and your irrelevant questions about whether or not you can go to Stacies tonight aren't helping: stop. Take a deep breath, fix her a Diet Coke, and put on some "Grey's Anatomy." Or whatever it is that your mom likes.
Moms are simple. Love them, respect them, and tell them they're amazing. Not everyone earns the title of mother. Some people have babies, and don't treat them right. So, if you have a mother who loves you unconditionally, and is always considering your needs above her own, cherish her. You literally never know what could happen, or when your mother could be gone. Act like it, and hug your mom today