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Love Yo' Self

If you don't believe in yourself, who will?

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2017 is already in full swing, and things are settling in. School, work, friends, and life can often get the best of us. We've already begun neglecting ourselves and giving up on new years resolutions just like we have in the past. There are so many simple ways we can keep on loving and caring for ourselves this year.

1. Stop comparing yourself.

We live in a generation where we find our self-value in likes on our social media and compare ourselves to the next person on our feed. We are constantly beating ourselves up and wishing we were more like someone else. The truth is, we are the way we are for a reason. We have been fearfully and wonderfully made in the eyes of the Lord. It was never his intention to have us tear ourselves apart.

2. Know your strengths and use them.

Just because someone can do something better than you doesn't mean you are weak. You have your own personal strengths that have been hand-crafted just for you. Everyone has been made different for a reason. Find what you are good at and what you enjoy and go for it.

3. Support yourself.

Stop being your own worst enemy. If you don't believe in yourself, who will? Confidence is key, so even if you are questioning yourself, if you believe in it, go for it.

4. Say "no" when you need to.

This is probably the most important thing we can do in today's world. We are constantly trying to please others and do what is expected of us. But at the end of the day, it is more important that you do what is best for you. If it's a Saturday night and you are absolutely exhausted, say "no" and enjoy a night-in to yourself.

5. Accept your imperfections.

We are not perfect and we never will be no matter what we do. Love yourself through all of the little things you despise most about yourself. If we can't love ourselves, how can we love others the way the Lord has called us to?

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