My craving for Dunkin Donuts stumbled upon me randomly. I really wanted Krispy Kreme but there was not one near by, so I kind of settled for Dunkin Donuts. On my way back to work, I took a little break, I heard an old classic. I am fancy. I have XM radio in my car. Thank goodness because Tidal burns through my battery on my phone. I Don’t Want To Know by Mario Winas was the old classic. I cannot put my finger on my age and what I was doing when this song was released. However, I do remember the video. He was sitting in tub singing being all sad and what not. In my mind, I do the same thing. My body is not as cut as his and I cannot sing but you get my message. If you have not heard the song before, go listen to it, and come back. His main idea is that if you are “playing” him or cheating, then he does not want to know. The song is a great example for ignorance is bliss in a relationship.

Ignorance is not bliss in a relationship. Do not be fueled by that lie. You NEED to know if he or she is playing you. I do not care how much you LOVE him or her, DON”T BE STUPID! I understand that if you are “single,” then it technically is not “cheating.” If there is no ring on your finger then you can do whatever you want mentality. Those quotes are used only to justify unfaithful ways.I do ask that everyone be respectful of another person’s feelings. Relationships and dating is already hard enough. Please do not be heartless. Although, if you have found yourself in a little bit of a bad romance then here are a few song that may help or not.

That's the Way Love Goes - Janet Jackson Temptation-Destiny’s Child

Right Here (Human Nature) - SWV Tyrone-Erykah Badu

Breathe Again - Toni Braxton Ordinary People- John Legend

On and On - Erykah Badu Unthinkable (I’m Ready)- Alicia Keys

You're Makin' Me High - Toni Braxton Get Me Home-Foxy Brown, Blackstreet

At Your Best (You Are Love) - Aaliyah Can’t Take My Eyes Off You-Lauryn Hill

Nice and Slow - Usher Don’t-Bryson Tiller

Slow Jam-Usher I Can Love You-Mary J. Blige, Lil Kim

Say My Name - Destiny's Child

Not Gon' Cry - Mary J. Blige

One in a Million - Aaliyah

They Don't Know - Jon B.

Happily Ever After - Case

Heartless-Kanye West

Fantasy-Mariah Carey

Heartbreaker-Mariah Carey

Kissin' You-Total

One More Chance/Stay With Me Remix - Notorious B.I.G.

I Need A Girl-P.Diddy

Nobody's Supposed to Be Here - Deborah Cox

Forever My Lady - Jodeci

You Give Good Love-Whitney Houston

So Sick-Ne-Yo

Irreplaceable-Beyonce

I hope this helps. Do not get to sad on me. Thats my job. Be safe in this heartless world. One more thing, if you have not noticed all of them are not 90’s R&B. Feel free to add to the list.