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A Love Letter To The Unemotional Women

We are not broken — just different.

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There is a special group of women who more than often get a bad reputation because they are not overly friendly and bubbly and affection is limited. Rather than showering everyone with hugs and compliments they chose to keep to themselves. Most people when they first meet these women label them as cold hearted and the statement of, “ I don’t think she liked me,” is whispered among friends as they walk away.

The truth is, these women are anything but cold and heartless, their character lays deep within and is more pure because it is kept protected and hidden from view. No, they are not emotionally broken and distraught, they just stray from the general female stereotype. You may think they do not care or are never paying attention but these kind of women are actually so in tuned with other people's feelings because they so deeply feel theirs. So, here are six reasons to love the unemotional women

1. She doesn’t want to talk about her feelings. She releases tensions in a constructive way

You understand that most people find comfort in being around other people and sometimes you wonder if you would too, but you would rather move on and tackle the issue. Sitting around and talking about it won't change it now, and you know getting up and putting one foot in front of the other will be the only way to fix a problem. You may run in the other direction when someone says venting session but you run right back when they mention something fun.

2. She doesn't care what other people say about her

You tend to be blunt and when you care about someone you will be honest with them. You tend to be confident and unaffected when someone doesn't like or agree with you. She thinks that everyone deserves the truth and she will get straight to the point about an issue like her filter is just turned off. This often can create an issue but it is way better than being two-faced. Right?

3. She is not good at comforting people

Remember, her intentions are good and she means the best but as previously said, her filter is turned off. When someone comes to her upset about a boy, she will be more than glad to tell her how much he sucks and question why she ever liked him. Which can many times do more harm. It is not that she doesn't care, she just doesn't understand wasting time on things that hurt and upset you. She wants everyone to know that deep down she does care, she just wants you to be happy now rather than later.

4. She never cracks under pressure

She doesn't have emotions and feelings to bog her down and that is one less thing to worry about. She can rise to the challenge and overcome with strength because she will not over analyze. She can see straight to the point, the bigger picture and all that little stuff fades away with any doubts and anxiety.

5. She only needs validation from a select few

Self-esteem has never been an issue for her and she doesn't seek out attention from others because she is content with who she is. However, there are a few people who she strives to impress, many times those people are not even aware. So, if you find yourself being one of these rare people, never forget how sacred the attention she does give you is to her and your bond.


6. Those she loves, she loves them deeply

Her small inner circle is the one she keeps close and is most important to her. She is a devoted friend, girlfriend and family member because her heart is directed towards a smaller group. She stands as a protector and defender for the ones she loves because many times she knows she can take the pain and hardships better than anyone else.

With all that, if you find yourself reading this and thinking about someone in particular then grab them and force them to hug you (because you know they don't want too) and be reminded of the importance of our friends who lack emotions. Remind her that she is not broken, just her own kind. They may come off to have a black soul but in then end, their black soul is rimmed with gold and for that, we love them.

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