How Did We Lose So Much Love? | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

How Did We Lose So Much Love?

When did we start to hate others so much?

23
How Did We Lose So Much Love?
Pexels

Let me ask you something: At what point do we stop? At what point do we stop making fun of others? At what point do we stop ridiculing the "others?" At what point do we stop making the snide comments on Facebook? At what point do we stop making little marks by names on boards/ pieces of paper? At what point do we continue to point out what we don't like about someone? At what point do we stop? At what point do we stop hating so much?

When did we get to this place of spreading hate around like it is the sweet icing on top of the cupcake?

When in reality it is like a cup of french fries with 3 times too much vinegar.

I keep looking around me and I see a sea of hurting hearts and hurting souls. A sea of broken people. I see people who are trying to do the best that they can in this cruel world. Sometimes they come up short and other times they just make ends meet. Either way, they are doing the best that they can. And that my friend, that is more than what a lot of people can say.

I see kids making fun of other kids because they are not wearing Hollister (or whatever the "cool" brand is now). They are 10! 10-year-olds are not supposed to hate so much. I am seeing college students with value conflicts that result in petty bullying. I am seeing mommas scrutinize other mommas for not using this brand of diapers and not breastfeeding. I am seeing dads judge other dads for letting their son take dance lessons or letting their daughter play football.

I am seeing churches bash other churches because they are not part of the same denomination and one church believes that they should sing contemporary music and the other only believes in singing the psalms acapella.

I look around me and all I see is hate.

And I wonder, how did we even get here? Who taught us to hate others so much and why? Because you cannot gain hate, you can only have the absence of love. How did we lose so much love?

I don't have any wise answers for you. I don't have any easy or quick solutions. I just want to challenge you to start fighting for love again.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Relationships

20 Things You Forgot To Thank Your Mom For

Moms are super heroes dressed in yesterday's clothing and they deserve an award for that.

44
family
Facebook

Dear Mom,

You took care of me and my brothers our entire lives and you still continue to! I will not be able to truly grasp all of the hard work that you put into this family until I create my own one day. But, I know that there are plenty of times I forgot to give you a simple thank you or an appreciative smile. I thank you for everything that you have done for me and will continue to do for me. Here are some examples of those times where you had my back and I forgot to pat your back for saving me:

Keep Reading...Show less
Bob's Burgers
Hyannishyball

First of all, there is no shortage of fun when you're together.

And you often find yourselves entertaining each others terrible ideas.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

The Unwritten Rules Of "Talking"

What is "talking?" How does one "talk?"

8307
girl holding phone
NYCPRGIRLS

Now that it seems “talking” is the new way to date, and will stay that way until another idiotic term is used to describe the people who can’t settle down and just date someone, I feel as if it’s time to go over the unwritten rules of “talking.”

Rule 1. Having feeling without feeling.

Keep Reading...Show less
The Stages of Having FOMO in College
iamthatgirl.com

Are you one of those people that gets super upset when you miss out on anything? Well, you may have FOMO, or fear of missing out. In college it’s not hard to experience FOMO every once in a while. You just love doing everything and anything, so hen you have to miss out on something it's the worst possible thing in your mind. Whether you’re sick, have to work, or have so much work to do you could cry – FOMO will hit you hard in college.

Keep Reading...Show less
Vivien Leigh
Revelist

I've lived a whole 21 years with an RBF (Resting Bitch Face), so naturally, I go through most of these struggles on a daily basis.

And before you ask, yes I'm fine. No, I'm not mad. This is just my face, so take it or leave it! To those of you who have been #blessed with an RBF, you'll probably relate to these more than you'd like to:

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments