Valentine's Day is coming up and with it comes a lot of lonely people. I believe there is a reason for everything, and no matter what kind of loneliness you're feeling, it's purposeful. On this day, surround yourself with others who care for you. Give to others you care about and see the happiness that brings you. There is no greater form of happiness than the one you have when you feed into other's lives.
To the lonely person on Valentine’s day,
Loneliness has a way of eating you alive like a box of chocolates
It appears like a dark cloud, hanging over you
It stays and continues to brew inside of you
Valentine’s day is when It boils over
Loneliness is a temporary home
You won’t always reside underneath this dark cloud
There are times that the vacancy in your heart will spread
Know that loneliness doesn’t define you
Know matter how long you’ve felt this cloud
You will never be defined by it
Whether talking about a relationship status, or the feeling of not being heard
Everyone will eventually feel this cloud
There is someone who cares
Whether it’s a parent, friend, or trusted adult
There is someone who cares for you and is worried about you
Seeking the approval of others will only draw you deeper
Find your strengths
Find your weaknesses
Find yourself
The loneliness that plagued you will one day fade away
No matter what people have said about you or what you are feeling now
You are worth it
I always remember going through middle school and part of high school and not spending Valentine's with anyone. I'm not just talking about when in a relationship, but whenever the day comes around, I could feel a sense of loneliness. Don't we all? I personally believe a day dedicated to "love" is just not how it should be. We should be loving people and our significant others every day, just the same.
Always remember, everything is purposeful. I hope that this poem helped you realize how much you can do, and will do when loneliness sets in. You are stronger than you think. Keep going. Find your happiness in you, not in what others say about you.