As a college student, it becomes rather difficult to forget that after graduation, we will be pushed into society and find a place we belong in. Personally, that concept is constantly being pushed to the back of my mind by staying busy with clubs and other enjoyable things (reading a book or hanging out with friends). Though, the only thing that I can never stop pondering on is whether what I'm doing is worth it or not. I've had friends come up to me and explain their situation on how they decided their major. "Family expectations led me to choose this field, though I have no real connection to it in the first place", my friend said as she wanted to be a veterinarian, but for her family chose to study international affairs. She graduated with that major and I wish her the best, but something unsettling stayed with me hearing her story. As a daughter of immigrants, there is an underlying standard that we have to try even harder in this society to give back what they sacrificed. My parents were not allowed to go back to their home for more than 25 years, worked long hours to provide a roof over my head and be limited to a system that only wished to exploit and remove them. I will only say this one, their decision and hardships led to the possibility of me getting a better life. Every situation is different and not each of us were dealt with a just hand, but life is the gift where you can always rise up and make it your own. If you are acting by the expectation of others who don't matter to you, then I suggest cutting those ties as they only limit from your true potential. People who truly care for you, whether it be family or friends, will listen to your input as those that truly matter to your future. The only inputs that matter on your future are your own. Life is made of many moments that everyone decides on what they plan to do, whether it be what to eat or how to outline their lives (if you need one for organization). As much as decisions are made through pressure, responsibility, or even spur of the moment, the goal in life should be to live every moment with the least amount of regrets. At the end of the day, if what you are doing makes you happy and satisfied, then I believe you had a day of fulfillment. Whether it be procrastinated on your assignment to read a book or spent the last couple of dollars on a meal with friends, as long as your happy then its a well spent day. Remember, time does not slow for no one, so living a life that you are not satisfied with will leave you with only regrets in the future. Thus, evaluate your decisions and listen your "soul" and decide what you want to do, and not limit yourself on the whims of others. Others did not have the opportunity to choose, so don't waste your chance with regrets.
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1. When you see each other after a hiatus it is like no time has passed.
Regardless of what you may have gone through, nothing can change the banter and personal communication you and your friends share. Nothing feels awkward or forced because you are having too much fun catching up!
2. You plan your outings around each other's schedules.
Your friend's work schedules or class schedules are memorized like the back of your hand. They are your priority, and you will do anything you can to get them to join you on adventures when it is convenient to do so.
3. You say 'I love you' on the phone.
Yes, you may say it in real life too, but saying it after a phone call means it has become a customary for you to validate your appreciate for one other. Like a significant other or family member, you feel the desire to express your love at the end of a conversation.
4. Nothing is boring when you are together.
No matter what you do together, you always have a good time. Why? Because your friends' company is all you need. With the right people, you can make any situation memorable.
5. You share weird inside jokes no one else understands.
And you would like to keep it that way. If you are anything like my friend group, we share a strange family dynamic that has lasted as a running joke forever. No matter what it is, your inside jokes and sly smirks will keep the spirits up for ages.
6. You plan to hang out for a couple hours but end up together the entire day.
So now you just expect it and prepare for a 24-hour long get-together. Naps are often a part of the agenda.
7. The hugs say a thousand words.
Perhaps you do it a little too much, but the hugs you share are always meaningful and comforting. Gotta love those group hugs especially!
8. You go on spontaneous adventures together.
It is where your favorite memories come from. Even though you might not be able to do them as much as you would like, you are always down for a trip, big or small, with the group.
9. You consider each other family.
Because you consider each other family, you treat each other like family. Constant love, constant support, and a tremendous amount of meals spent together.
10. They make you a better person.
It is not a special friend group unless you learn from one another. You had to be selective when choosing your friends and when you did, you felt like they could teach you a thing or two. Their actions influence who you are and you could not be more thankful.
11. You can't imagine life without them.
The very thought scares you and sends your heart racing. Thankfully, the ultimate friend group is right there with you so you never have to second-guess their loyalty. Instead, you can bask in the glory that is your ultimate friend group. #squadgoals.
1. No school = no stress.
There are no essays to write, no books to read, and no deadlines to meet. The only worry in the world is keeping track of putting sunblock on.
2. Country music is more fun to listen to.
All true fans will listen to country music 365 days a year, but we all know that it's so much better in the summer when you can roll down the windows.
3. Your skin looks and feels better.
Even if you don't have the type of skin that tans, there is more color there than in the winter ... maybe. Freckles, tan lines, peeling burns and clear skin make for a happier camper. You'll forget all about the ghost version of yourself that was shedding dry skin like a snake over the winter.
4. Being barefoot 24/7 is an option.
Obviously wearing no shoes in the middle of a blizzard isn't acceptable. You know what is, though? Wearing no shoes in the summer ever because why not?
5. Ice cream is an acceptable snack.
For people like me who can't resist ice cream even on a 10 degree day, summer is a giant ice cream blessing. Not only does it taste like heaven, it's actually refreshing.
6. Minimal clothing is required.
Is there anything worse than having to put on layers in the wintertime only to sweat to death the minute you come back inside? No need for more than a tank top and shorts in the summertime.
7. Going to the beach daily isn't weird.
Now that it's hot, it's beach season. If you live near the ocean there is an excuse to drive there day or night, rain or shine. Staying there all day is an option for those who don't burn, and for those who do, you can always come back at night for a bonfire.
8. Cookouts.
Even when they lead to disaster, summertime cookouts are the best. Nothing completes a cookout more than watermelon and corn on the cob.
9. Night swimming.
Oh the thrill of jumping in freezing cold water in the middle of the night. Good thing the air becomes colder than the water, making the pool like a giant bathtub.
10. Spontaneous adventures.
Summertime gives you the freedom to wake up in the morning and decide to do something totally out of the blue that you've never done before. Hiking to a waterfall, rock climbing, going to a museum, or even road tripping are all great summer options.
Even if the heat isn't really your thing, it's undeniable to admit that life really is better in the summer. There's so much more free time, opportunity, excitement and sunshine. Only four months to go!
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