During my orientation about a year ago, I was told the importance of not only focus in my class but also to take part of all the things happening around campus once my classes were over. I was told to join clubs, have leadership positions, and if I wanted maybe I could create a club of my own. Also, I was told to look for internships, research and volunteer opportunities because not only will these help build my resume, but they will help me create networks and open more opportunities. Additionally, study aboard opportunities got mentioned, students and professors saying, “it is a life-chainring experience,” or “everybody should life a year abroad."

Of course, as any high school graduate, I was beyond excited for all the opportunities, and I could not wait until my life started to change. I joined different clubs, and met people who have helped me to grow as a woman and have become my friends. However, I did not felt in right place.

During my most of the time of my first semester, I was questioning everything. From if I was choosing the right major, to if I wanted to stay in Miami for two years or I should transfer in one year. I did not feel happy where I was or how I thought my life would end up. However, during that time I spent a lot of thinking of my options, what things I could do to feel happy again? I decided to work on my first. I started to spoil myself. Once in a while, I would have some Starbucks or go on a Burger King run. I would buy something for myself I always wanted or drag my friends with me to this place I always wanted to go. If I wanted to stay at home and just recover sleep for a few hours, I would do that. Or maybe I just wanted to watch old series on Netflix. I was doing everything in power to feel happy again, and IT WORKED.

That is when I realized that for me to have a successful college experience I have to make sure I’m happy with myself and focusing enjoy the little things. Once these four years are over, real-life will be waiting for me. During this time I’m making decisions that will shape the rest of my life and when that time comes, I want to make sure I'm in a stable state of mind to make the best decisions possible.

So, my advice is do all the little and silly things that make you happy, like singing in your car, looking at the sunset or eating you favorite ice-cream. College is stressful. Remember to have take time to enjoy the college experience and to allow time for yourself to disconnect from the world.