I drink too much coffee and watch too many episodes of Gilmore Girls in a row. Sometimes I lay in bed, and can not get up for the life of me. It'll take twenty alarms before I actually force myself. I still eat everything I shouldn't, even though I promised myself I wouldn't. I keep lying to myself, saying I'll start watching my weight another day. I still hate my body most days, but I'm learning to love myself again. Life is still really hard sometimes, and I catch myself drowning in small things I shouldn't even think about. I think and talk about politics too much. I keep thinking that people are worse than they actually are. Not everyone is bad, and I have to keep reiterating that to myself. I keep telling myself that life is beautiful and I will learn that one day. Life can be happy and I will be one day as well. I think of little scenarios in my head of what my life will be like in ten years. I'd like to think I'll be in my cute house, with my cute kids and cute husband, and we will barely have any worries. I like to think life will never be like it is right now, at this exact moment. I like to think I will be free. Yet, that is exactly what I am trying to accomplish right now. Freedom. I am learning how to be free, and to feel less cloudy. To feel like the sky is always blue, and flowers bloom just for me. To feel like the trees and moon and I have a connection again. To feel the wind against my skin, and know everything will be okay. To know I am not drowning. I will never drown. So I guess, you could say I am in the process of learning again. Learning more about myself, and life in general. Learning about my passions and my hopes, and dreams. Learning about self love, and learning that what happens to me is out of my control but, how I react to it is what really matters. I'm learning how to be a kind person again. To be a kind person to the ones who are unkind to me, for they need the kindness the most. I'm learning that not everything is super personal. People are just people, and sometimes they hurt you without that intention. Learning that the small things that make me happy are the important ones, and that not everything is dark. That there is light in all situations. I am learning that being soft is beautiful, and being full of grace is amazing. That I am not weak. I lost myself for a really long time, and I found me again. Although, I have to teach myself how to be the me I once was. The real me; the one who felt free. I'm in a process, and I will make it through. I am learning to be happy again. That's where I am.
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10 Wonderful Things About The Holidays
Some of the best things about the upcoming holiday season.
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As the holidays approach, there are many wonderful things that start to appear. From weather to food and even to the decorations, there are so many wonderful things about the holidays.
1. Cold Weather
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I mean, who doesn't love cold weather? You get to wear sweaters and boots and almost all of your drinks are hot! Who doesn't love holding a warm drink in their hands? Plus, sweaters -- you can not go wrong with wearing a cute sweater.
2. Thanksgiving Dinner
Does this even need an explanation? Especially after eating campus food for the whole semester up to this point. A huge home-cooked meal is never a bad thing.
3. Thanksgiving Leftovers
You can't go wrong with a Thanksgiving leftover sandwich. Start with turkey, add a little stuffing and cranberries, then dip it in gravy. So good! Plus, it's still home-cooked food, so you can't go wrong there.
First off, all of the holiday themed drinks are wonderful. I mean, I can never turn down a peppermint hot chocolate. Plus the holiday means Starbucks has their cranberry bliss bars and those are heavenly. Also, you can't help but enjoy the Starbucks Christmas cups.
5. Christmas Decorations
Christmas is one of my favorite holidays so I could go on and on about it but I won't. From the tree and the ornaments to the lights and the tinsel, Christmas decorations are always so much fun. Even the hanging of the stockings!
6. Christmas Music
Christmas music always helps create the Christmas mood. Especially when all of the new Christmas albums start coming out. I mean, Pentatonix already has their new Christmas album out and it's heavenly. Plus, you can't miss out on some Michael Bublé Christmas, am I right?
7. Christmas Cookies
It is always a wonderful tradition to make cookies with your family during the holidays. I have always loved being able to make Christmas cookies with my mom; the smell of cookies filling the kitchen and the house.
8. Christmas Lights
I have always loved going around to different neighborhoods and seeing all of the houses lit up with Christmas lights. Even back home there's a neighborhood that becomes Candy Cane Lane at Christmas and it is all lit up and beautiful.
9. Family Time
One of my favorite things about the holidays is that I get to spend time with my family. Everyone gathered around the dinner table and the tree. Playing games and laughing and just being able to spend time with each other.
10. New Year's Day
Even though the current year has ended, a new start is always good. It gives you a chance to look back and remember the old, but also look forward and enjoy the new. Plus the new year is just another new chapter in the book that is your life and who knows what that new chapter will bring.
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14 Thoughts Every College Student Has During Winter Break
The most common: "Is it time to go back to school yet?"
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Winter break is a cherished time for many after enduring a grueling fall semester. It’s a time of relaxation and time spent with loved ones over the holidays. However, once the new year rolls around, we’re all ready to go back to school. Here are thoughts every college student has during winter break.
1. “It’s the most wonderful time of the year!”
2. “A home cooked meal at last.”
3. “Happy Holidays! I need to bake cookies and watch movies.”
4. “Reunited and it feels so good!"
5. "Okay, it's January second. Time to go back to school.”
6. "$125 to rent a textbook?"
7. “I should probably get some shifts in.”
8. “I’m broke.”
9. “I’m hungry.”
10. “How many more days left of break?”
11. “I love not having any responsibilities.”
12. “I’m staying in bed. All. Day.”
13. “Wait, should I start working out?”
14. “Wow I need to go back to school.”
As much as we love being home for a much needed break, it doesn’t take long for us to miss the college atmosphere we’ve fallen in love with. As January continues on, college students everywhere are itching to get back to their second homes and kick the new year off with a bang.
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11 Little Changes You Can Make That Will Have a Big Impact On The Enviroment
Simple switches to eco-friendly habits could add up and have a positive effect on the environment!
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In the past decade, there has been a recent surge of compassion for the environment. Many people are beginning to realize how much of a negative impact their daily lives have on the environment. In case you weren't aware the average person has about four pounds of trash per day and American's make up only 5% of the world population and produce a startling 40% of the world's waste. If you care about the environment, here are some smalls changes you can make that will have a big impact!
1. Buy a reusable water bottle
I absolutely love refillable water bottles because they are cheap and the best way to stay hydrated anywhere. You can find them almost anywhere from CVS, to Target, and millions online. They range in price from thin plastic costing only a dollar or two to more durable stainless steel from about $7 and up!
2. Buy a reusable coffee or tea mug
Most adults drink coffee and/or tea on a regular basis so skip the plastic or styrofoam cup that will take up space in a landfill and opt for something that will actually keep your drink hot or cold. There are a variety of different types of mugs that can be found at almost any store. As an avid coffee addict, I love my stainless steel Ibex mug as it keeps drinks cold for 72 hours!
3. Reusable food wrap
When wrapping snacks or leftovers for on the go opt for reusable beeswax wraps instead of plastic baggies, plastic wrap, or tinfoil. Although initially, the reusable wraps cost more long-term they will save money and reduce the amount of plastic waste you contribute. You can also find plenty of DIY reusable beeswax wraps.
4. Reusable food containers
Although most people probably have some type of containers for food at their house remember to use them even for things like sandwiches rather than disposable containers. I also really love glass containers because they are convenient if you want to heat up something in a microwave because you can simply just pop the lid off and its ready to go no need for a plate!
5. Skip plastic utensil
When packing a lunch or grabbing take out say no to wasteful plastic cutlery and opt for your own utensils from your kitchen or this little kits are a great option for someone on the go! I know personally, the point of getting takeout is to avoid dishes but utensils take virtually no time to wash.
6. Biodegradable toothbrushes
Toothbrushes are supposed to be changed every three to four months, so this 4-pack should have you set for an entire year! These toothbrushes cost $15 on Amazon with free shipping for Prime members. They often come with charcoal which is an all-natural teeth whitener that will help your teeth stay pearly white.
7.Reusable bags
Reusable shopping bags are a simple alternative to plastic shopping bags. I find that they are more durable and fit more so its actually easier to load fewer bags into the car and carry them inside. The durability also means no more ripped bags from sharp edges or heavy contents. Another great thing about reusable bags is you can get cooler bags so your cold food can stay that way even on the hottest of summer days and they can double as a mini cooler for the beach! Marshalls, TJ Maxx, and Homegoods also sell large reusable bags which I have used to pack clothes and other goods when moving in and out of college.
9. Reduce food waste
Try to limit the amount of food you throw out by keeping a log of what you throw out each week to help you better understand the right amount of perishable foods that is right for your household. If food does go bad before you have the chance to enjoy it try composting it in your garden. If you have a lot of excess food from a party you can even see if you can donate to a local soup kitchen. Another way to limit food waste is to be aware of expiration dates vs. best by or sell-by dates because you may be throwing out good food with this simple mix up.
10. Grown your own food
If you have a yard or deck growing your own food is a great eco-friendly way to get fruits and vegetables. Not only will this save you lots of money it's also a great hobby. Imagine the pride you could feel while eating strawberries you grew instead of paying $4 for them at the store! For some great gardening ideas check out these easy steps for making a zero waste fruit garden.
11. Reduce driving
Reduce the amount of time you spend driving by combining errands such as trying to visit multiple stores in the same plaza or close by to one another. You can also limit driving by carpooling with friends, family, or neighbors when traveling. If you have to run a quick errand such as picking up a prescription at your local pharmacy or running to the convenience store for one or two items skip the drive and walk or bike instead!
This is by no means an inclusive list of small changes you can make in your daily life that will benefit the environment but these are a few ideas to get you started. The internet is full of great ideas and you may even be able to come up with some of your own! If you can afford to choose products with eco-friendly packaging or shop at stores like Package Free. If more people made these little changes together we could make an enormous impact on the environment. Please share these list with friends and adopt as many changes as you can!
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10 Facts All People In A Large Family Can Confirm During The Holiday Season
The holiday season can be the best and most stressful time of the year, especially when more people are involved.
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The holidays are full of lights, sweets, sweaters, and your favorite movies. There's nothing quite like this period from the beginning of December through January. Christmas, Hanukkah, and New Years. The fun of it all.
I don't know about you but with my large Italian family something is always going on during this season. It can be the most wonderful time of the year while also being the most hectic. These are a few things you know if your family is anything like mine during this time.
1. The Family Traditions
Every family has their own types of traditions whether they realize it or not. In my family, we have a specific day that we set aside for the whole family to get together and make Italian fig cookies called "cuccidatis." It's an old Italian tradition that has been passed throughout the family and we've never once skipped a year.
2. Enough food for an actual army
There is food for days. Full stomachs. Leftovers. SO. MUCH. FOOD. It is hard to fathom how much there is to feed your miniature army-size family.
3. Never enough space
With all those beloved family members, it can get a little too crowded. Not enough seats. Always around someone. It can be crazy.
4. Always Loud & Never Boring
Let's be honest here. The room is probably silent only before guests arrive. Then the volume skyrockets. They'll always be some conversation you can pop into.
5. Parties. Parties. Parties.
Again, if your family is anything like mine, they like to host A LOT. Every week there's some dinner party or get-together that you need to dress up for. And when you're in college you need to make sure you pack enough outfits for it all.
6. Scheduling
With a large group of people, you have to plan accordingly to fit everyone's schedule and make everyone happy. It can be a tiresome chore when you are the one hosting.
7. Travelling
With a large family, there will be someone traveling during the craziest airport season. This time of year, airports are like second homes to some people when they are traveling. And don't even get me started on all the plane rides.
8. The family members you see once a year
Oh, the family members you see once a year... or every blue moon. They just pop up and add more to the list. Although it makes the numbers grow, it's always fun to see old family members and catch up.
9. DRAMA
Throughout this season, you and your family may catch up on the year's events — elections, celebrities, scientific inquiries, who had a baby, who got married, whatever is your jam. However, with all that news, you catch up on the drama of the family. Oh, the family gossip. A large family comes with a larger amount of drama that is sure to never run dry.
10. The questions about life
As a college student, this may be the most dreaded part of family gatherings. The questions of what do you plan to do with your future. Are you dating anyone? Do you want to get married? How's college going? What were your grades? SO. MANY. QUESTIONS.
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10 things that happen the second Thanksgiving is over
AKA, Christmas overload.
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To those who celebrate, you just spent an entire day cooking an elaborate meal with all of your favorite foods. You probably ate your body weight in pumpkin pie and mashed potatoes. What happens now? Oh yea, Christmas. It’s time to take out all of the decorations and Christmas themed things that have been sitting in the attic since last year; it’s time to make a reappearance. So, here are 10 things that happen the second Thanksgiving is over.
1. You whip out ALL of the Christmas decorations.
2. You can’t hear anyone’s complaints over the Christmas music you’re blasting throughout the house.
3. Christmas shopping becomes a sport, AKA black Friday.
4. You have a hard time picking out a pair of Christmas socks to wear because you have TOO MANY.
5. Your family is probably worried that you’ll burn the house down with all of the holiday-scented candles you’re burning.
6. Egg-nog, peppermint, gingerbread, or an overly sugared something, becomes a staple part of your diet for the next month.
7. You cancel all of your plans because you will be too busy watching ABC family’s 25 Days of Christmas.
8. You smell like a bakery because you’ve been making cookies nonstop.
9. You probably look like jolly old saint Nicholas yourself because you are smiling from ear to ear.
10. You don’t have time for negativity because you are too busy spreading the holiday cheer.
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