Through the years, I have learned many lessons that have changed my life. Some of them were tough to learn while others just happened without me being aware of them. I am--slowly--becoming an adult, and as years go by I realized that some things have changed. That is why I have decided to share some important lessons you need to know.
1. As you get older you get more and more responsibilities...
I always wanted to become independent, but I never knew it would be this hard to become an adult.
2. You have to be a role model
There is a lot of people watching you, but also, since you are an adult, your actions may have severe consequences. Just be thoughtful about your actions and be that person everyone wants to be.
3. You will still experience many disappointments
Yes, sadly they are always there.
4. It is hard to define and find "happiness"
It may take a while, but if you define what happiness is for you, then it is easier to set goals to get there.
5. Slow down! It is fine if you still haven't figured out what you are going to do with your life
You don't need to rush. Just take your time because every decision you make matters.
6. Don't try to change for others
It is not worth it...Stay true to yourself.
7. Do not procrastinate
This is highly important. From my own experience, I know that I could've accomplished so many things, but I decided to procrastinate. Time is something you won't get back.
8. Fake it until you make it
There are several things that scare us and we just stop doing something because fear takes over us. However, if for a moment we just pretend we are not scared, then we will believe that we can do anything.
9. Be passionate about what you do
It is very IMPORTANT to find something you are passionate about and stick to it.