This is it. Take a deep breath. As your hand extends out to receive your high school diploma, take this time to thank those who have got you there, forgive those who have hurt you along the way, and never forget where you came from.

When your hands zip up your gown, and you place your cap upon your head; brush off the stains that have caused you hurt along the way. Mistakes are made, but there is growth from them. Its learning from them and moving on. And your graduation day is the perfect opportunity to forgive and forget. This is your time to let go of the things that have caused you pain. For holding on to them just bears unnecessary weight on your shoulders. It is moving on, and moving those roadblocks away from your path.

This is the beginning of one of the greatest chapters in your life. High school may have shown you great times, but this is when you are really tested. Going out on your own is not easy, but it is part of life. These are some of the best times. It is realizing there is more out there, it is realizing you aren’t the center of everything, it is realizing that the world is big and beautiful and overwhelming. Put yourself out there for others, be a good teammate, reach out to professors, be friendly to floor mates, keep smiling! You are going to go out and accomplish great things, and that piece of paper you hold in your hands is your ticket to go anywhere in life.

Today is the culmination of everything you have worked for. As you flip your tassel, you are flipping the page to the next chapter of your life. And this chapter is what you make of it. Although this is the most independence you have ever had, know you are not alone. We are still here to support you, and that’s the greatest part. No matter how far you venture off in life know you will always come home to open arms. You are so loved. You are so blessed.

As you toss your cap up into the air remember that your cap will eventually come back down. Don’t be afraid to fly- never pass up any opportunity to succeed. But don’t forget how you got there, remember where you came from. Stay grounded. Don’t forget the countless hours of hard work; of blood, sweat and tears, lots of them, that got you to this moment. Be appreciative of those who have helped you along the way.

Remember nothing of worth ever comes easy. You have come so far, this in no way means the hard work is over- it’s realizing its possible.