Dear Big,
Our story is unlike others. For starters, we didn't meet during recruitment or on Bid Day. We barely even knew each other's faces at first! We didn't have a sacred bond that started before I joined our chapter, which would have made finding you a little easier. However, we did have that special connection that everyone talks about: you know, "the moment you officially realize who will become your big sister." For me, this happened about three weeks into my new member process during the first conversation we had. From that moment on, I knew I'd found the big sister I've always wanted.
Although the beginning of our relationship was quirky and uncomfortable—I mean, we were fixed into this brand new affair, forced to call each other "Big" and "Little"—I wouldn't have wanted to develop a sisterhood any other way. From the very beginning, we started sharing secrets about ourselves, making sure the other knew what they were in for during this life-long journey! You realized that I'm a nutcase and I realized you were the same; consequently, our relationship really worked out in each other's favor, because no one else would be able to handle our flaws! You taught me that it's all right to be me, and to never change for anyone. You showed me how to truly love someone who is not blood related by loving me unconditionally like a real little sister. With all the ups and downs in my life, you have been my number one fan, pushing me to continue forward and never look back.
I've never had a relationship like ours; I've never looked up to someone the way I look up to you. I can't imagine crying and venting to anyone else while still getting the sisterly love I need. I actually can't imagine having conversations like ours with anyone else because we just understand each other so well! You been such an inspiration to me, and I am forever grateful for your wisdom and guidance.
So, thank you Big. Thank you for turning this once little girl, who didn't know the meaning of sisterhood, into a strong woman who now has a little sister of her own. Thank you for putting up with all of my shenanigans, but still loving me for me. Thank you for teaching me the way of our beautiful chapter and constantly pushing me to be the best sister I can be! Thank you for being my mom-away-from-home, because you're always here when I need some motherly college advice. Thank you for being reckless with me, but all in the best ways! Thank you for loving me like your family and accepting all of my flaws I wish I could change. Thank you for being you.
I love you to infinity and beyond, and I can't wait for the rest of our journey as Big and Little.
Love always,
Your Little "Munchkin"