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A Letter to The Girl Who Doesn't Give a Damn

Part two in a series of letters.

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A Letter to The Girl Who Doesn't Give a Damn

To My Ex-Best Friend,

I first want to start out by thanking you for being a friend whom I could laugh with and who I could sit with in class. You were someone who helped guide me to more friends. The problem is that our friendship consisted of just that. It had no substance nor did it have any of the foundations of a real friendship. Trust, Honesty, Love, it was all a one-sided engagement. I gave so much to you and you not only drained me dry but always abandoned me when I needed you the most, The time you convinced me to go to a "meeting" that turned out to be a party and when I had a panic attack, you wouldn't leave with me. The time I donated plasma and you left me there stranded and woozy, all because you were mad you couldn't donate either. The times when I needed to talk to you, you were too busy or just didn't really care. It took me taking space to focus on my grades for me to see just how much you "cared". Too bad the way you showed that was talking trash about me because I wasn't hanging out with you.

But being a bad friend to me isn't your only crime. You used our mutual friends and their kindness. You lied on one of the women I love the most and caused everyone to stop talking to her, all because you were jealous of your ex dating her. You talked shit about all of your friends from home and called them "whiny" or "needy" when that is the exact definition of you. You would get livid if you didn't receive the attention you thought you deserved and you would always react horribly if you didn't get your way You strung on numerous guys and thrived at the fact that you could do that and had their attention. You hurt one of the most delicate of us and you insist that "It wasn't your fault". You lied about rape, and that is something not to play with. Especially when you bragged about it to so many people. You could ruin a life. All because you love drama and thrive on attention. How DARE you. You tried to destroy friendships, and you manipulated so many people.

I want you to know, everyone knows everything now. We don't like you anymore and we aren't going to put up with your bullshit any longer. So you can go and cry to your new friends about how we "hurt" you, but soon they will see through your act like it took two semesters for us to. You're a compulsive liar, you use people to get what you want and you play the victim so you can get your way.

Well, that's over now and you are not going to use me any longer.

Cordially,

The Girl Who's Standing Up For Once

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