An Open Letter To My Step-Dad
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An Open Letter To My Step-Dad

Thank you for loving me as your own, even when you didn't have too.

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An Open Letter To My Step-Dad
Taylor Whitsel

Sometimes in life, we have people that cross our paths that make the journey more enjoyable, and you did just that. You came along and mended what was a broken and desolate little girl. A little girl who had lost hope in a father, a little girl who could not take much more heartache and disappointment, a little girl who wanted to feel loved by her father.

I heard so many stories about nightmare step-parents who are cold and bitter, but you were warm and loving. Never once did you treat me any differently than your own child. I remember sitting on the kitchen counter cooking eggs with you and making milkshakes. I remember when you asked mom to marry you and how you sat us down on the couch and talked to us before you asked her. I remember you promising to always love us on the back steps of the chapel where you and mom got married and you giving us those charm bracelets.

Because of you, I finally had a steady father figure. I got to tell all of my friends about things we would do together. You were at every game and practice supporting me and you never let me go a day without feeling loved.

So for all that you have done, I need to say thank you. For loving me, for accepting me, for pushing me, for supporting me, and for never leaving my side. You truly are a blessing to my life and to our family and I am thankful the Lord led you to us. I'm thankful for the laughter and the love you bring into our family, but most important of all, I am thankful you stepped in and filled a hole that so badly needed to be filled.

In my eyes, I never viewed you any less because you were my "step-dad". If anything, I looked at you in a more respectful way because of the way you loved me and continue to love me as your own "blood" child.

You filled a void that I had, you poured out love, and you have continued to do that for the past 15+ years.

I'm forever thankful for you and all you've done, even when I don't tell you like I should.

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