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A Letter To My Sister Who Lives Far Away

"Side by side or miles apart, sisters will always be connected by heart."

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A Letter To My Sister Who Lives Far Away

Dear Sister,

From a young age, we have never been apart for a long time. We lived under the same roof for many years, and had the privilege (and annoyance) of seeing each other every day. We sometimes got on each others nerves. Between borrowing clothes and makeup without asking, hogging up the bathroom, etc., what are sisters for? Now that you have moved away because of college and life, all of those pesky fights feel minuscule. We've both matured with age, and I can honestly say I miss having you around. Not living under the same roof has opened up my eyes to how grateful I am to have you as my sister.

Whenever I have a problem, you are the first person I text about it. Even though you are far away and extremely busy, you always set aside time to listen. I appreciate every piece of advice you give me, and I also try my best to reciprocate when you need to vent. Things that I had trouble talking to you about while growing up now feel easier than ever. You always tell it like it is, and you give me your brutally honest opinion. You think the dress I am wearing is unflattering, or my outfit makes me look like a teenage boy? You think I am wasting my time or effort on a guy? You'll always let me know. You care about my well-being and what is best for me, and that is why I can trust you so much.

I am forever thankful for how social media has allowed us to stay in touch and let us communicate easier. Whenever I receive a Facetime call, I am very happy to respond no matter what I am doing at the moment. I also enjoy your Snapchats (even if they are mocking me and my "duck face" selfies). It's okay though, because your drunk calls late at night make me laugh and I wouldn't have it any other way. I try my best to make time to keep in contact with you because I know that you do the same for me.

When you come home every few months to visit, we always pick up where we left off. You guide me in whatever I need help with whether it be school work, social life, or any real life problems. I love watching TV, grabbing a bite to eat, having you do my hair, or simply just hanging out. The time spent away from each other has made me value the face-to-face time I have with you. No matter how many miles apart we are, nothing will change the fact that you are my sister and one of my best friends. From children, to young adult women, we have come a long way. No amount of distance could ever replace or change that.


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