Dear Bro,
Yup, you're old. I've decided that I will have to get over that fact now, rather than later down the line. Soon enough we will be moving you into college, and you'll be off on your own. S-C-A-R-Y. It is crazy how fast time goes by. I remember your first day of high school, and how I couldn't believe you were going to be a freshman wondering the halls. Well, here I go again, still not believing you are going to be a freshman, but this time, a freshman in college.
Although we may not be many years apart, you will forever be my younger brother. It doesn't matter how many inches taller than me you are, or how much stronger you are than me, regardless of these factors, you're still my little bro. So little bro, I have got some things to remind of you as you go off to college.
You won't feel like a freshman forever.
The first few days, maybe even weeks, of college will not necessarily be the easiest. You will likely feel like a lost puppy on campus trying to get from class to class without being late, and that's okay. Like anything else, college takes some time to get used too. Knowing you, you'll get the hang of it rather quickly, and will forget that it's your first year on campus.
Remember who you are.
It is so important to stay true to yourself. It is so easy to get "caught up in college," and forget about the incredible person that you are. Here is your reminder to be true to yourself. Before you do anything, take that split second to think. Think if it's something you would do while you were living at home, and most importantly, think if what you're doing would disappoint mom and dad.
Go to class.
It is so so so easy to stay in your bed all day and just watch Netflix. Your mind and body tell you that, if I miss this one class I won't fail. Don't think like that. Go to class. You never know what you will miss that day, and your GPA will definitely thank you for going.
Learn to manage your time.
Sure, I just told you to go to class and get a good GPA, but make sure you have a social life too. Time management is crucial in college. In my opinion, it is one of the most important skills to have in order to succeed. Go to class, do your homework, but still go out and have a good time with your friends. Balance is key.
Call mom and dad.
If not a call, at least a text (heck, I wouldn't mind one every once in a while either). Sure, in college you're on your own, and free, but mom and dad are still there for you, no matter what. So don't forget to call them when you ace your first test, when you need help with your laundry, or even just to chat.
Live a little, and have fun.
A college experience is one like no other. It can be as unique as you choose to make it. So here I am, telling you, to make it unique. Make it the best possible. Don't stress out over all the little things, but rather, breathe and remain mentally healthy.
I am so incredibly proud of everything you have accomplished, thus far, in your life. I am excited to watch your journey through the college world, and cannot wait to hear all your stories (mostly about you doing your own laundry, jk). In all reality, college is what you make of it, so make it great.
I love you bro.
