A Letter To My Husband's Mom In Heaven | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

A Letter To My Husband's Mom In Heaven

To My Mother In Law, His Angel

3578
A Letter To My Husband's Mom In Heaven

An Open Letter To My Husband's Mom in Heaven:

I didn't get the pleasure of meeting you. I have only been graced with seeing pictures of you holding my now 6'8" husband when he was tiny..okay maybe not tiny because he was never tiny. I see pictures of you holding this little baby which happens to be the grown man I hold now. I see the warmth in your smile and your red hair glistening in the sunlight, or any light for that matter. There is so much that I wish I could ask you, so much I wish my husband would have gotten to share with you.

Thank you for teaching my husband what love is. He may have only gotten 7 years with you but in those 7 years I know you showed him a kind of love that only a mother can show and for that I am thankful. I am thankful that he is the tenderhearted, caring, amazing man that you created within those 7 years.

Thank you for letting him dream because your little boy has accomplished those dreams. He owns his own business and I could not be more proud of him.

Thank you for setting the bar so high that I will never reach it. He knows that you hung the moon and adjusted the stars so perfectly nestled away in the sky. I can only hope that one day I am such an amazing mother that my kids will think the same of me.

Thank you for instilling so many values into your baby that mean so much to me now. I wouldn't be where I am in life if your son wouldn't have been my guiding light along the way. His tender heart and helping hand are two characteristics that melt my heart every day. He is the most giving person I know. He is everything that you wish the world had more of. He is kind, caring, giving, nurturing, and simply perfect.

His childhood wasn't easy without you but I am so thankful that your parents stepped in and helped him along the way. They are the most amazing people I have ever met in my life. They are made of gold and I can never thank them enough for everything they have done for not only him but for me as well. They would do anything in their power for him, just as he would for them. They watched your little baby grow into a teenager and then into a man. I know you watched him through each step as well, you just had a better view.

I have heard so many stories about you so in many ways it feels as if I did get to know you, although I know the stories can only convey a small fraction of how amazing you are. I have picked up on this beautiful notion that my husband is kind of your mini-me. His beard turns more red every day and his dimples only seem to get deeper.

I see so much of a resemblance between your photos and the face I see every day. Between his hair turning red and those dimples and those cheeks, I see you in his every expression. I can only imagine how many similarities those that were lucky enough to know you both see.

At the beginning of our relationship I knew every date that held such high importance, I still know. I knew that those days he may not talk to me, or he may want to, or he may really need to talk to me. Either way, I knew to be prepared to be whatever he needed that day. I will never be able to say I know what he goes through because I don't. However, I promise to be by his side and hold his hand if that's what he needs that day. I promise to give him space on the days he needs it and I promise to never take the moments he shares his memories for granted.

Most people have no idea how hard I wish that one day we have a little girl of our own, a little girl with red curly hair. If the odds are stacked for anyone, the odds are stacked in favor of that happening for us. There is nothing more in this world that I want than for your little boy, my husband, to have a little red head capture another section of his heart. No one truly knows that every thought of having a child is surrounded by the wishes of her being your mirror image.

I may not have had the honor of meeting you but I know I am marrying your heart strings. I hope my kids have the same smile as he did in every picture with you. I hope I can be a mother that raises children to be just as amazing as your son.

I have a few promises to make to you, his dad, and his grandparents:

I promise to love him every day of my life. I promise to love him even on the days we disagree. I promise to be the best wife I can and to take care of your little boy to the best of my ability. I promise to hold his hand through any situation we may face. I promise to never take him nor his love for granted. I promise to be kind every day even when I want to throw a frozen dinner across the living room at him. I promise to be his shelter when the outside world starts raining in. I promise to value him each and every day. I promise to love him wholeheartedly and never forget to show him that love. I promise to be the best mother I can be, when that time comes. I promise to instill the same values that you instilled in your little blonde boy. I promise to encourage his dreams through every stage in life. I promise to take care of him whenever he may need me to. I promise to always do my best throughout every title I hold whether that title is wife or mother.

I know you are proud of him. I know you look down on him every day and it fills you heart to see what an amazing man he is. He's perfect. He is a walking masterpiece. Your walking masterpiece. You created the most perfect aspect of my life.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

198030
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

19533
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

461395
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

28596
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments