Dear future little,

I know recruitment hasn’t started and we probably haven’t met yet, but I’m so excited to be your big. You don’t know me yet but I already love you so much.

You might not know yet that you want to go Greek and that’s okay. You have time to decide. You might not know yet what being in a sorority is all about and that’s okay too.

It really doesn’t matter how you feel going into recruitment because come bid day you will have found your home. You’ll have so many sisters waiting to welcome you with open arms, who will love you from the get-go.

Once you get your bid, nothing else will matter. The awkward conversations you had during recruitment will be a thing of the past. The way those heels pinched your toes during pref night will be a minuscule detail. The hard choices you made when ranking which sororities you felt most at home will all be worth it. When you open your bid card and see what sisterhood you’re now apart of, nothing else will matter.

I can’t wait to get to know you. I don’t know if we’ll meet during recruitment, or bid day, or a sisterhood event. We might already know each other.

I want you to know that I'm going to do everything in my power to be the best big for you that I can be. I'm so excited to have a little and I hope you're excited to get a big. I know people put a lot of emphasis on the relationship between big and little but our relationship is ours, not theirs.

Our relationship can be whatever you want it to be. I want to be there for you any way that I can. If that means giving you space to do your own thing that’s okay. If it means being a close friend that you spend lots of time with that’s okay too.

I hope you’ll be just excited to be my little as I am to be your big.

I’ve already started pinning ideas for gifts for your initiation basket and crafting for you. I can't wait to give you all of the canvases I've made.

I can’t wait to share with you all of the reasons that our sisterhood is so special. I’m excited to help you prepare for initiation and help you learn the creed because yes you really do need to know it. I already know I’m going to cry when you get initiated and become a full-fledged sister.

I already love you so much and I can’t wait to show you.

Sincerely,

Your big