Hey there babycakes, I bet you're looking super cute right now. Knowing myself, I probably have you dressed in some skinny jeans with some hip converse….maybe even a beanie too. First things first, I hope you know how loved and cherished you are. I hope you know that I would do anything in the world for you and that you can come to me always, for anything and everything! Below I have left you some tips for life. Please use these tips as a guideline to be the best man you can be. Please also remember them through the ups and downs of life. I love you to the moon and back.

Tip #1: Don't ever forget that life is temporary.

I pray to God that by the time you're in middle school, they will have a required class about this. All situations and hard times are temporary. Bullying, bad grades, getting grounded, breakups…It is all so temporary and those feelings of pain will surely fade away. Never make rash decisions on a feeling or emotion. Good times always follow the bad so keep pushing through and know you always have me by your side to cheer you on!

Tip #2: Never smoke cigarettes.

This one is just common sense. Don’t be gross.

Tip #3: Treat humans with respect.

As my mom (your grammy) used to say, “kill em with kindness.” Always remember that words are very powerful and can really affect how someone feels about themselves. Never use your words for hate, but only for love. Treat all humans, and especially the ladies, with respect and always be genuine. Take extra time and effort to show people you care…It will only be beneficial for you in the long run.

Tip #4: Put God first.

Make God the center of your life, and soon enough, everything else in your life will revolve around honoring him. Everything from friendships, to relationships, to meeting strangers in a coffee shop will become much more meaningful if you have God as your source of joy and energy.

Tip #5: Be different.

Doing what everyone else is doing is so boring. Be unique and do exactly what you want to do.

Tip #6: Don’t be afraid to get dirty.

My best memories from my childhood are probably when I was the dirtiest. Anywhere from mudding in my four-wheeler to finger painting my entire body, life is for making messes and having fun!

Tip #7: Always have hope.

The last, and possibly most important life tip I could ever give you, is to never give up hope. Our world is corrupt, but not all people are. There will always be good people in the world, so find the best ones and hold on to them tight! Inspire others with the hopefulness you have for the future. Be brave and always know that the best is yet to come!