To the man I haven't met yet,
Most girls my age would say that they dreamt and prayed about you, but I have not. I have not spent hours dreaming about who I am going to marry. I have not prayed for you to come into my life, and honestly I don't think I ever will. I have spent years working on me, I have been getting myself to a place where I can fall in love and dedicate myself to someone else. I have been making myself a person worth loving.
I have always believed that you cannot be loved until you love yourself; that is what I have been working on. I have been learning how to be a person that can be loved, I want to be the person that you want to marry. I want to be at a place where we can work together to create a perfect life for the both of us. I want a marriage that lasts a lifetime, and to do that I think we both need to love ourselves and be people that can be loved by each other.
With all of that said, I cannot wait to meet you and start a life with you. I cannot wait to create memories, start a family and just live with you. I hope you will accept and embrace my crazy, I hope you join in on my goofiness and I hope you share the same love of life that I have. I hope that you don't judge my chocolate chip cookie addiction, I hope you support my very dramatic side. I hope you embrace the person I have worked so hard to be.
I also want you to know that I will always support you, I will always believe in you and I will always stand by your side no matter what. I will make sure you always feel loved and that you are never alone in the world. I will accept your flaws and insecurities in hope you that you also accept mine.
To the man I haven't met yet, I wish for all of this. Even though I don't spend my time day dreaming about you I want you to know that I care so much about us that I am working extra hard to make myself worth loving by you. It may seem selfish and silly compared to what other girls my age are doing but just know I usually march to the beat of my own drum (as I hope you do you too).
Heres to the life we will make together, to the memories we will create together and the joy we will feel together!
With all my love!
The girl you haven't met yet
