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To My Future Husband Who I Haven't Met Yet

Most girls my age would say that they dreamt and prayed about you, but I have not.

Jenny Foutz

Mar 02, 2017

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To My Future Husband Who I Haven't Met Yet

Kendra Meneses

To the man I haven't met yet,

Most girls my age would say that they dreamt and prayed about you, but I have not. I have not spent hours dreaming about who I am going to marry. I have not prayed for you to come into my life, and honestly I don't think I ever will. I have spent years working on me, I have been getting myself to a place where I can fall in love and dedicate myself to someone else. I have been making myself a person worth loving.

I have always believed that you cannot be loved until you love yourself; that is what I have been working on. I have been learning how to be a person that can be loved, I want to be the person that you want to marry. I want to be at a place where we can work together to create a perfect life for the both of us. I want a marriage that lasts a lifetime, and to do that I think we both need to love ourselves and be people that can be loved by each other.

With all of that said, I cannot wait to meet you and start a life with you. I cannot wait to create memories, start a family and just live with you. I hope you will accept and embrace my crazy, I hope you join in on my goofiness and I hope you share the same love of life that I have. I hope that you don't judge my chocolate chip cookie addiction, I hope you support my very dramatic side. I hope you embrace the person I have worked so hard to be.

I also want you to know that I will always support you, I will always believe in you and I will always stand by your side no matter what. I will make sure you always feel loved and that you are never alone in the world. I will accept your flaws and insecurities in hope you that you also accept mine.

To the man I haven't met yet, I wish for all of this. Even though I don't spend my time day dreaming about you I want you to know that I care so much about us that I am working extra hard to make myself worth loving by you. It may seem selfish and silly compared to what other girls my age are doing but just know I usually march to the beat of my own drum (as I hope you do you too).

Heres to the life we will make together, to the memories we will create together and the joy we will feel together!

With all my love!

The girl you haven't met yet

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All names should be "unisex names."

1. Communicating via email can be awkward.

2. Appointments usually accompany weird looks.

3. Introducing yourself to someone is never without a hitch.

4. You’ve probably thought about changing your name.

5. You’re often asked why you have the name you do.

6. You get excited when you meet someone of your gender with your name.

7. You feel awkward when you meet someone of the opposite gender with your name.

8. You’ve had someone say to you, “I knew a [your name], but they were [your opposite gender].”

9. You’ve heard a bad joke/pick-up line or two about your name before.

10. People are surprised when they see you.

11. You’re extra sensitive to other unique or unisex names.

12. You’ve fought with your parents about it.

13. All things considered, you’re happy your name makes you unique.

You know that all of these things apply to you. You'll just never tell.

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1. At least I can't lose you in a crowd!

2. Oh my goodness your skin is like glow-in-the-dark.

3. Can't you just get fake tan?

4. Do you tan or just burn?

5. Your kids are going to look like Casper the Friendly Ghost!

6. *holds arm against your arm* Look how much darker I am compared to you!

7. *holds pale arm against another pale arm* Aw, at least you're darker than her!

8. I laid out by the pool almost every day over break!

9. I haven't used sunscreen since I was, like, five.

10. *adjusts selfie lighting to their face* Oops, where'd you go??

11. *after working out* Your face is SO red!

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13. You need to get some sun.

14. Aren't you excited for summer?

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Because you need it in your life.

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6. holds arm against your arm Look how much darker I am compared to you!

7. holds pale arm against another pale arm Aw, at least you're darker than her!

10. adjusts selfie lighting to their face Oops, where'd you go??

11. after working out Your face is SO red!

12. wears white Look! You're all one color!