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A Letter To My Best Friend Who Is Struggling

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Hey you. I know that you're going through a lot right now. I know that things haven't been the greatest for you lately. You're struggling a little bit, but that's okay. You have a lot on your plate right now. But I promise you that everything will be okay.

Please never forget how much I love you. You have such a beautiful soul. You are one of the strongest people I know, and you inspire me everyday. You have the ability to do anything you want in life, and I know you will be incredibly successful in anything you choose to do. You have a big heart, and you are kind, generous, and compassionate. You are a fantastic human, and I don't want you to ever forget all of your amazing qualities, even on your worst days.

I know that some days you don't even feel like getting out of bed, and that's okay. Some days you can't find the motivation to do homework, that's okay. Sometimes you have to cancel plans so that you can sleep or do something for yourself, and that is definitely okay. It is okay to not be okay. You don't need to be perfectly strong all the time, and you need to take care of yourself.

Please make sure that you are taking care of yourself. Please eat enough, and get some sleep. Color or read a book. Watch a movie. Take a bath. Take some time for yourself. You deserve to take care of yourself. You NEED to take care of yourself.

Remember that you are loved. You are beautiful. You are strong. You have the power and the ability to do anything you set your mind to. You are determined, brave, and wonderful. You can do this. You can fight any battles that come your way. You are stronger than these obstacles. You got this. Keep pushing. And I will be here to hold your hand all the way through. I love you no matter what. Never forget that.

I love you to the moon and back. Keep your head up, darling.

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We don't buy into these... just like how we don't buy our friends.

8. "The whole philanthropy thing isn't real, right?"

7. "I don't need to buy my friends."

6. "Oh, so I'll bet you love to drink."

5. "Can you tell me some of your secrets?"

4. "What do you do at your meetings?"

3. "Do you guys haze really badly?"

2. "Is it just like in the movies?"

1. "Sororities are so basic."

There are plenty of obstacles that come when taking care of kids, but it's a very rewarding experience.

1. You get excited when the parents purchase season passes to the pool.

2. You've become friends with the stay-at-home moms in town.

3. You get a chance to eat "kid foods" again.

4. You've traded in your cute purse for a large tote bag.

5. You have at least one car seat in your backseat.

6. Their nap time is your happy time.

7. Lunch time can be a disaster.

8. You have to play the same board games repeatedly.

9. You catch yourself using the same lines your parents once told you.

10. Your "mom-mode" kicks in at times.

11. Your heart melts a little when they do something cute.

You'll never find any souvenirs with your name on it

1. You know you are up next when the teacher pauses while taking attendance

2. When “I’m going to do my very best to make sure I know all your names” is said, it may or may be an empty promise

3. “Wow! That sounds so cool! Where is your family from?”

4. You dread when people ask you to repeat your name over and over because it “sounds so cool when you say it”

5. There’s a 50/50 chance that your name will come back either correct or incorrect at Starbucks

6. People try to find shorter, easier nicknames for you instead of calling you by your actual name

7. When someone famous or fictional character shares your name, you get so happy

8. “What’s your name?” “It’s [name]” “I’m sorry, what was it again?”

9. You’ve pretty much seen every misspelling and heard every mispronunciation of your name throughout your life

10. When you find another person with an “ethnic” sounding name, you both get excited

11. Despite the struggles, your name is pretty unique… just like you

Can I be excused for the rest of my life?

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1. “Oh, so you/your family are immigrants!”

2. “Is Puerto Rico near Mexico?”

3. “Do you speak Puerto Rican?”

4. “You look too light/dark to be Puerto Rican.”

5. “Do I need my passport to go to Puerto Rico?”

6. “Geez, you are obsessed with your flag. We get it, you’re Puerto Rican.”

7. “Why are you so loud?”

8. “So does your family know English?”

9. “Oh my god, Puerto Ricans are so spicy.”

10. “So did you eat a lot of tacos?”

11. “Are you Mexican?”

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