Dear future daughter,
I want you to know how much of a blessing you are in my life. Ever I since I was little, I dreamed about having you, how much you may or may not look like me, and the great accomplishments you will have. I am writing you this letter so that, when you read it, you understand how much I love you, and, of course, so you know that I was always great at giving advice. Here are some things that took me a while to understand that I want you to know.
First, I want you to know how beautiful you are, inside and out. I'm sorry, I know that's so cliche, but it's true. You are so valuable, and I am so proud of you. I know what the standards are for girls, how high and outrageous they can be. So just do what makes you happy, and forget what the media is telling you to look like or to be.
Second, boys. Oh goodness, boys. They are going to be a part of your life whether you want to admit you have a crush on one or not. Growing up, I want you to protect your heart and make good choices. Having said that, I hope you find love. It is one of the best feelings in the whole world, and you are going to be so happy. If for whatever reason, that love fades or your heart is broken into a million pieces, I want you to know it's going to be okay; even though right now it seems like your world is ending. I promise it's not, and there is so much more ahead for you! I hope you never find yourself crying alone in your bedroom upset over a guy either. You deserve to be happy, and they don't deserve your tears. Plus, whatever age you are, you know I'm right down the hall.
Third, I want you to learn how to treat others and how to act yourself. Growing up, I saw how so many girls acted: petty, self-absorbed, and rude. I hope that you see those people as well, but know that's not how you should be. Treat others with the utter most respect and kindness. Most of the times people are going through a tough time themselves so sending a smile their way and being nice can go a long way. Be mature and understand how to present yourself, be humble, and be modest.
Next, I hope you find a friend group that lifts you up instead of one that brings you down — friends that have your back no matter what. I want you to have friends you can go on adventures with, laugh with, and grow up with. The friends I had growing up are a lot of the reason I am who I am. I have incredible memories with them and couldn't imagine life without them. Some friends will come and go, but know that you're going to have some for a lifetime and that is something so special.
If you're anything like me, you're going to be talkative, so at dinner make sure you remember to eat and talk less. You're going to love sports but also love dressing up, and that's totally okay. You most likely won't be great at math, and� that one I'm sorry about. You're going to love shopping, so please get a job as soon as possible (thanks in advance). I hope you're kindhearted, but be careful, don't let people walk over you, and stand your ground. Lastly, just remember, when you're a teenager and we're arguing, I was exactly where you are once upon a time and I get it.
I also hope you were able to meet your grandparents, my parents, and if so you have a great relationship like I do with them. Growing up they were my number one supporters like I want to be for you. They were there for me in the best times and the worst, like I will be for you always. They're the greatest parents I know, which is something I am going to strive to be for you everyday.
I hope you enjoyed this letter and learned a little something.
I love you,
mom
