The exciting part is only just starting. You're going from store to store for furniture, fans, new clothes, a new back pack, waiting for that new bed set, a desk lamp, calendar and all those must-have college essentials. Take my advice and take in every single second of this. Yes, shopping and packing might be stressful but when you go into your second, third and fourth year, you will have nostalgia of being a first year student. You're going to feel like you're packing up every single thing you own in your house and will want to refuse to leave anything behind.
You only have one first move-in day at college. Let your parents introduce themselves to every other parent and faculty member on campus, you never know where it will lead you. Believe it or not, they could make a pretty great foundation for your reputation there but it is up to you to build on it and prove that you are as great as your parents say you are. Sure, they have high expectations for you but don't let it get to your head.
"Welcome week" is going to look like the most tiring and anxiety filled week because you know no one but trust me, you will meet some of the best people. Yes, ice-breakers are really annoying and repetitive but really listen to what people say about themselves and make friends! They say the people you meet in college will be the best people you will ever meet and the best friends you will have. Remember, the people you associate yourself during this week probably will not be the ones you end up being closest with; you still have to make friends in your classes and really see the familiar interests!
If you are going to a local college that lots of people go to from your home-town, yes you will most likely stick with them before you are ready to explore and get to know other people and thats okay! You will find your place. And when you do, you won't ever want to leave. It will become your home.
Saying goodbye that you've had classes with, seen in the halls every day and have gone out to lunch with will probably be the hardest and weirdest part. They became out parents other child, you were always at each others houses having an after school meal, doing homework and just hanging out. Now, you're going to be in peoples dorms hanging out with a whole new set of people talking about everything you used to, just a college version. Just think of it as the first day of middle school again, meeting new people and going out of your comfort zone again. Everything is going to be different when you wake up on move-in day and think to yourself "I'm going to college today". You won't be comparing your schedules with the usual people and walking to the first day of school with the people who have gotten you through everything in the past 4 plus years, you're in for an eye opening adventure. You will find your people. You might even grow out of your old friendships from back home. There is so much in store, you just have to open the door!
To all of you who disliked high school like I did, trust me when I tell you that colleges makes up for everything. Enjoy the ride!
