I have absolutely no idea who you are, but I do know this, I love you and I cannot wait to be your wife. I may have already met you, or maybe I haven't, but, none of that matters to me now. Right now, I'm 19 years old and in college, not focusing on a relationship. Today, I'm writing you this because there are some things I want you to know.
I'll love you forever, and that's a fact. I can say with certainty that if I'm choosing to marry you, it's because I'm absolutely positive you're the right person for me. I don't go into things lightly, I take everything (including myself) seriously, and this was in no way an impulse decision. That's just not who I am.
I will love you and do things for you, but I won't be that woman that stays at home while you have a career. I'm fine with making sacrifices for you and our marriage, but just know that my career is important to me. I'm not going to school for 4 years studying and working hard just to stay at home. I want to have a career and I plan on keeping it that way.
If I'm ever hesitant or unsure about where things are headed, help me by reassuring me things are okay. I have some trust issues as you'll find due to a rough past, but I don't let that stop me from pursuing relationships or friendships. Just know that I'll always love and adore you, it just helps me to know where you're at too.
I refuse to live anywhere that's cold unless it's necessary for my job. I prefer 75 degree weather year round if I can help it. Nowhere's perfect, but I'm thinking California? We can decide together, just know that if you bring up anywhere that's colder than 50 degrees, it's an automatic veto.
I'm stubborn as hell, you can quote me on that. I won't back down from something unless I know I was wrong or I should stop. It's not you, it's really me. I'm stubborn and I refuse to see things the way others do, but it's okay.
Overall, I'm excited to see who you will be and our life together. Right now, I'm young and not looking for love, but one day I know I will be and you'll be there. I can't wait, and I hope you're excited too.
I've Been Single My Whole Life & That's OK