A Letter to All the Girls Out There | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

A Letter to All the Girls Out There

We are growing up in a world that does not always accept us how we are.

1017
A Letter to All the Girls Out There

We are growing up in a world that does not always accept us how we are. It’s always either too tall or too short, too skinny or too fat, etc. It’s a lose-lose situation no matter the circumstance. It’s always nice to hear some encouragement in a world where we, especially as girls, are surrounded by negativity all the time.

Martina McBride says it the best in her song "This One's for the Girls":

"This one's for the girls, Who've ever had a broken heart, Who've wished upon a shooting star, You're beautiful the way you are, This one's for the girls, Who love without holdin' back, Who dream with everything they have, all around the world, this one's for the girls."

Being a girl is hard. There is no way to sugarcoat it and make it sound easy. From a young age, we are taught that the world is a cruel place; that we should not speak our mind all the time (even if it needs to be spoken.) We are told that we have to maintain the “perfect” body image or we are considered fat. The issue with this is that once we're at that “perfect” body image, we become “too skinny”, and we are told that we are not good enough if we are not a part of the "cool kids" at school.

I'm here to say, so what. You are made in a unique image. You are given unique gifts, use them. Do not hide your talents because people might judge you. You are only young once, so do not let the fear of what the world will say hold you from expressing whatever way you choose. Wear what you want to wear, eat what you want to eat, and live how you want to live. You are only given one life, choose to live it to the absolute fullest.

To the girls in high school, this is a time for you to be finding yourself, not losing yourself while trying to fit in with that clique that you think is the best thing ever. You are going to have friends who love you and enemies who hate you, so be ready for it all. I hate to break it to you, but you’re always going to have people who don’t like, or don’t agree with you. You will never be happy if you always try to please other people, so instead make yourself happy and those who want to be around for it will be, and those who don’t, then they obviously aren’t the kind of people you want to surround yourself with anyways.

To the girls out there who love a little too hard, or who wish upon every single shooting star; keeping loving and keeping wishing. Nothing is stopping you from doing what you want. You are your own person, love till you cannot love anymore, and keep wishing on those shooting stars, because at some point your wish will come true. As Marilyn Monroe once said: “Keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.”

We as girls come in all different sizes and shapes. We all have different dreams and qualities that make us our own person. Your personality is what makes you so special. So at the end of the day, when you have to choose between being you and fitting in the crowd, make sure you choose yourself.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Adulting

18 Things I Want To Do Now That I'm 18

I'm technically an adult, so I'm legally required to live a little, right?

507
Happy Birthday Cake

For the entirety of my high school career, I was always seen as the goody-two-shoes. I never got in trouble with a teacher, I kept stellar grades, and when I wasn't doing extracurricular activities, I was at home studying. Even when I did go out, it was usually with a bunch of fellow band geeks. The night would end before 11:00 PM and the only controversial activity would be a fight based on who unfairly won a round of Apples-to-Apples when someone else clearly had a better card (I promise I'm not still holding a grudge).

Now that I'm officially an adult, I want to pursue some new things. I want to experience life in a way that I never allowed myself to do prior to entering college. These are the years that I'm supposed to embark on a journey of self-discovery, so what better way to do that than to create a bucket list?

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

10 Life Lessons from Christmas Classics

The holiday classics that shaped my life

315
10 Life Lessons from Christmas Classics
Flickr

The holiday season is full of stress, debt, and forced conversation. While we rush through the month of December, it's important to take a step back and enjoy the moments before they're gone. Most families love to watch Christmas movies, but these beloved films provide more than entertainment. Here are 10 life lessons that I've learned from the holiday classics we watch every year.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

199261
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

20307
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments