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Open Letter To A Friend Going Through A Breakup

You can count on me, always & forever :)

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Open Letter To A Friend Going Through A Breakup

Before I say anything, I just wanted to let you know that I'm so deeply sorry. You never deserved any of this. You deserve someone that will love you so much that they forget what living without you felt like. You deserve someone that will make you laugh to the point you can't breathe. And you deserve someone that will bring you ice cream and flowers when you're sad. I know that you really wanted him to be the one. You fell for him. But I want you to remember that everything happens for a reason. And sometimes… the people that we love have to leave. It's sad, but it's true. I know you're feeling so many different emotions right now such as anger, confusion, and sadness. I wish I could take that pain away because no one deserves to feel like they weren't good enough. But, GUESS WHAT?! You ARE good enough. You're beautiful, smart, loving, and amazing. This is just a bump in the road. You have your whole life ahead of you. Love will come to you when you're strong enough to handle it. But for right now, you need to focus on yourself. You need to love yourself, fully. And I know this is a lot to handle and I want you to cry. I want you to let everything out. And believe me when I say this… things will get better because the light comes eventually. I want you to acknowledge the pain you're feeling. I want you to know that those feelings are okay. That's what makes you human. And most of all, I don't want you to hate him for doing this to you. I don't want you to build hatred in your heart because that's when trust issues start to develop. I know it's hard right now but I want you to forgive him mentally and let him go. If it's meant to be, it will come back but if it's not, something even better will come. I also want you to forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for all the mistakes you've ever made. Just know that this isn't your fault. Or his. It had to happen and that's okay because you have so many people around you that want to help you. I want to see you happy. I want to see you succeed in life. And I'm always going to be here for you through thick and thin. You can count on me, always & forever. But, you can do this. I promise. I believe in you :)

Love,

Dasha

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