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To The First Man I Ever Loved

A father is a daughter's first love.

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To The First Man I Ever Loved
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Dear Dad,

I know no matter how much I write in this it won't be enough to express how thankful I am for you and everything you've done for me. I'm writing this to you because out of everyone that has helped me throughout my life, you are the one who receives the least amount of credit. Maybe that's just part of being a dad, but I want this to be a little acknowledgment for all the sacrifices you have made and continue to make for me. I don't believe you get all the light shining on you that you deserve but maybe this short letter will help that.

The fathers of this world have many, many, many, roles and responsibilities when they have daughters. From changing diapers to being the first impression on how a man should love and treat a woman. Dad, I want you to know that I remember it all. I remember when you would tuck me in at night, give me a kiss, and tell me how much you loved me. I remember all the sporting events you have sat through just to support me even if I wasn't doing well. I remember all the times you gave up your time for me and didn't ask for anything in return. I remember all the times you've hugged me and assured me it was going to be okay even when I didn't believe you. I know there have been times where I have let you down, but you still never gave up on me. Don't worry, as time goes on and life happens I'll be behind you cheering you on just as you've done for me.

You were the first man I ever loved. You had my back when I thought I was alone. You were the first that saw me cry and the first to wipe away the tears. You were the first to dance with me. You have shown me love beyond compare and that's why I am the woman I am today. You have set high expectations for whomever I marry. I noticed all the times you've ran out in bad weather to get the car so mom and us kids didn't have to run through the storm. I've taken note all the days I've seen mom and you hug and kiss and say I love you every morning before you leave for work and every day when you come home. I have watched you come home exhausted but still stay up to eat dinner with us and listen to every single person tell their story of the day as you sit there patiently listening. You have set my standards high and I hope one day I find a man who treats me as amazing as you treat my mom.

One day you will walk me down the aisle. Standing there at the end will be a man that has a love for me as strong as he loves Jesus. He will treat your little girl like a real man should. I want you to know that when I let go of your arm, you're not losing me. I will be beginning my journey of the rest of my life. I know that it's scary to watch me take my next steps towards my future, but I want you to know I'm going to make it because you laid out my walking path for me. I trust that no matter where I go or where my dreams may take me, I will always have you behind me. I may not physically be the little girl that makes mud pies in your backyard and drives a pink barbie jeep up and down the driveway anymore, but I want you to know that in both our hearts, I'll always be her.

Love you forever,
Your little girl

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