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A Letter To My Friend Who Feels Like She's Not Enough

You are enough, and more.

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A Letter To My Friend Who Feels Like She's Not Enough
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Hey love, yes I’m talking to you. Don’t walk with your head hanging low, keep it up. I know that you’re feeling down, and are unhappy. That’s not okay. That’s not you. It breaks my heart to have your name light up on my phone telling me that you’re upset because of some guy, some guy that makes you feel ignored, putting you down.

I want you to know that you’re worth so much more. You are radiant, hilarious, and have such a full heart that you love to wear on your sleeve. You’re full of life and no one should ever dull that sparkle. Those guys who don’t give you the time of day don’t deserve you. They don’t deserve the love and happiness you’re willing to give them. You don’t need them as much as you think. I’m sure they make you feel special once in a while by sugar coating their words and tell you things that you want to hear. But you're smarter than that.

You are worth more than a guys approval. Listen to me when I tell you, you are amazing. And no I'm not just telling you that because you're my friend, I'm telling you because I've seen it first hand. The right guy will come when the time is right. There's no need to spend your time stressing about them when they only make you feel bad about yourself. You should never feel that way.

Until you do find your Prince Charming which I know you will, you'll always have me. I've been by your side from the beginning of our friendship and will forever be along for the ride. If you're looking for dinner and a movie, I got you covered. I'll even treat because you mean a lot to me. I'll always be here for support and advice no matter the distance between us. Never forget me and all of the other great people you're surrounded by when one guy gets you down. Don't let one person dictate your happiness because you deserve to be happy every single day.

So to the guys that are breaking your heart, tell them goodbye. To the guys who are depleting your self worth, tell them you're worth more than they could ever give you, and to the guys who you want to cry over, tell them you have a million other reasons to smile.

The next time you're feeling discouraged remember to pick your head up. You're strong, independent, and don't need a man. I hope you can read this and feel appreciated. I hope you are able to forget about those guys who are making you feel blue and know I'm always here for you.

Stay Beautiful,

Your Best Friend

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