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A Letter To My Little Sister

You inspire me everyday and I bet you don't even know it.

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A Letter To My Little Sister
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Leave it to me to get sappy... But sometimes as big sisters (and brothers) that get wrapped up in our daily lives, we may not always give you the recognition that you deserve for being so awesome. I have said it once and I'll say it again - I am incredibly proud of you. I can only hope that I have given you guidance through my example. And by the looks of it, you have actually been an amazing example for me, too.

Since I am 5+ years older than you, I know I haven't been around much. In middle/high school, I was always involved in different things that took up so much of my time. When I moved away to college, I was only home during family gatherings/holidays. Little did I know how quickly that time passes and how much that I have missed out on. Truth be told, I'd give anything for that time back. But knowing that I can't have time back and seeing now how strong and beautiful you are as you're becoming a young woman, I feel happily content.

I am amazed at how much you teach me. In times of stress or trouble, you always know what to say. I also might add that you're input on fingernail polish colors and hair styles are pretty helpful, too. I don't know exactly how you do it, but in some way or another you always know exactly what to say in my time of need. I seriously wish that I was as cool as you are at the age of only fifteen. Sometimes I think about how life would be if the roles were reversed and you were my big sister. One thing is for sure, I know I'd have the best big sister around. But no worries, because I already know for sure that I have the best little sister around.

As you grow up, make decisions, and eventually become an example for someone else, I want you to know this. You shouldn't worry about being perfect. Because at your age, you already have so much figured out. You have a heart of gold and a glowing attitude that radiates positivity. I am so proud of the young woman that you are becoming and as I sit and reflect on our lives together, you have been such an inspiration to me and my life - and I bet you don't even know it.

Stay true to yourself, little sis. Please continue to be your own person and do what makes you happy. I am thankful for you and for our relationship (so please don't get too cool for me) that continues to keep us together as not only sisters but as best friends. Having to set examples and make the right choices in order to be a role model for you has been extremely hard work, but thank you for letting me know that it is okay to just be myself. Either way, you're simply the greatest and I couldn't imagine feeling any luckier to be your one and only - big sister.

Always loving you,

Your Big Sister


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