Dearest brothers,

For your whole lives, you have had the joy and the honor of having me as your older sister. I have always been there for you to lead you into trouble, and you have always been there for me to take the blame when I should be getting in trouble. It's all give and take, and it's why our relationship works so well! But now I'm away at college, and you are still growing up. But I want you to know that I'm always there for you, because I know that you will always be there for me.

I realize we don’t always get along. For some reason you get mad at me when I sneak into your room and steal some candy you’ve been hoarding, while other times you will tackle me or punch me when I least suspect it (and it's even worse now that both of you are now taller and bigger than me). It's OK that we tease each other and roughhouse sometimes, it just means that we love each other. It has been an amazing experience to watch the two of you grow up into such cool people, and I am excited to see you grow even more in the future.

Now that I'm away at school, I don't always get to see you every day. I know, I know. It can be hard without your mentor, role model and the greatest person you know, but realize that I'm only a phone call, text or Snapchat away. But for those moments when I'm not present, I want to give you some advice: always stay true to yourself. Both of you are such amazing kids. Your kindness and your hearts of gold will continue to amaze me. The world is too full of negative people and situations, so make sure that you fill it with as much love as you can.

Always give your best effort. Already, we both know that you guys are hard-workers. Whether it be in hockey or school, always try your hardest and give it your all. If you have put everything you have into something you love, then you will have no regrets and no matter what the outcome is, you will be happy. Which brings me to my third piece of advice, happiness is completely relative.

People can be happy with very little, while others think they can only be happy with a lot. The catch is that things don't always make you happy. Surround yourself with people that love and care for your well-being and that you love and care for. Once you have done this, often anything you do will make you happy because you know that you have love in your life no matter what you do. Family and friends are important. They are your support system and will be there for you if you ever need someone to talk to or need help with anything ever. But sometimes people come into your life and they might not be the best for you or your plans. My suggestion is to realize that someone isn't good for you and let them go. Life is too short to dwell on those who are not good for you, and you will always deserve the best, so act accordingly.

We're all growing up so fast. Soon you'll both be in high school, and I'll continue living that adult life. But no matter what the future holds for us, always remember that I will always love you and will always be here for you. And always make sure that Mom and Dad appreciate your presence because man, they're pretty lucky to have been blessed with such amazing kids!

I love you, nerds.