In life, we always we meet people who come off as the best person ever or we try new things that excite us at first but have us unhappy later on. We have all been in a situation were forgive and give back into the same thing that hurt us in the first place. Why do we do this to ourselves? Is it to always have someone by our side or just because we want to be nice?
I have learned that grudges get you nowhere in life, so let things go and move on from them. Yes, the thought of what made you have that grudge in the first place will always be there, but control your actions towards it because lowering yourself to the person or something that hurt you will not help you.
Life is full of mistakes and unwanted heartbreaks, but can we control it? I can answer that with a yes and a no. But the thing is when you first meet someone they can be a totally completely different person until you actually get to know them. Life has a funny way of showing us who are meant to stay and who is meant to go. But that is the joy of life. If your life was perfect would it be interesting? Maybe or maybe not. I believe that the best life is lived with no regrets.
Let go of the unhappy thoughts, moments, and anything that makes you unhappy. Let go of the toxic people in your life. Find happiness. Try new things, it is okay to be afraid. Either you get hurt and grow from it or you fall in love and cherish it. Let go and let God.