1. Lorelai and Rory: Be there for the ones you love. 

There are quite a lot of mother-daughter relationships you can find in and out of Stars Hollow. But Lorelai and Rory are different than any other, they are EVERYONE'S mom and daughter goals. They have an inseparable bond that nothing can break, they're best friends and tell each other everything. My mom and I are super close, but we can never compare to Lorelai and Rory — their inside jokes, fast-talking, and anecdotes are what makes them unlike any other mother and daughter.

Lorelai and Rory's relationship can teach viewers so much, but one lesson that is evident throughout the show is the importance of being there for the ones you love. Throughout the ups and downs, the heartbreaks, and the fights, Lorelai and Rory are always there for each other to lend a helping hand or give a shoulder to cry on. No matter what is going on in their lives, they are always ready to run to one's side with good advice and a cup of coffee.

2. Emily and Lorelai: Family is so important. 

Next, we have Emily and Lorelai. Wow, they are something. Their relationship is seemingly opposite than Lorelai and Rory, Emily and Lorelai rarely get along. Their conversations are scarcely friendly and love-like; it would be hard to find a chat between the two without passive-aggressive remarks and sarcastic words.

But, nonetheless, viewers can learn a lot from them. Despite their rough past and drastically different lifestyles, Lorelai and Emily still have a special connection. They care for each other and they continue to teach us that family is important; it's more important than past disputes and petty disagreements. When the worst happens or someone in the Gilmore family needs help, they are all ready to put differences aside and place their family first.

3. Rory and Dean: First loves don't have to be your only love. 

So Rory's first relationship was a good one. It's clear that Dean was the perfect guy to be Rory's first boyfriend, he was always kind and sweet. Their relationship was adorable and they were so good together... until they weren't. They find themselves drifting apart and wanting different things, which became very hard for Rory to process. She tried her best to hold on to her first love.

Rory and Dean showed viewers that though a first relationship may seem like the most perfect thing ever, it doesn't have to be the only love you ever have. They teach us that your first love can be absolutely heartbreaking, but it's okay to let it go and move on when the time is right.

4. Rory and Jess: It doesn't have to be perfect to be right. 

Oh, Jess. Here we have Rory's second boyfriend and he is most definitely the bad boy of Stars Hollow. He causes havoc throughout the town, yet there is something special we can all see in him. He is smart and intellectual and he cares about Rory. He wants her to be happy and he's there for her throughout it all.

Jess teaches viewers that though he may not seem to have it all together, he can still be the right match for Rory. he definitely has his flaws and it's clear that Jess isn't perfect, but when he and Rory finally get together, they click. Just because Jess doesn't seem to be the perfect fit for Rory, they find themselves to be right for each other.

5. Rory and Logan: It's important to have fun and let loose. 

Ah, Rory's last love. Throughout her relationships in the show, this one is definitely different from the others. Logan comes from a wealthy, stuck-up family and seems to get everything handed to him. When we first meet him, it's clear he isn't a relationship guy, but viewers soon find him changing his ways as he falls in love with Rory. He brings Rory into his world, filled with adventure and fun.

Logan teaches Rory something that is helpful to all viewers — it's important to take the time to let loose and just have fun. Logan brings Rory on countless adventures where she is able to experience things she would have never imagined doing. Rory often lives an uptight and scheduled life and Logan shows her that it's perfectly OK to let go and enjoy life every once in a while.

6. Lorelai and Chris: Don't allow yourself to be pushed into something wrong. 

Oh boy. This is a relationship that never really stops, they were together when Rory was born (clearly) and they find themselves running back to each other several times over the next twenty-something years. Christopher is always someone that Lorelai wants to love, but the timing and circumstances are never right.

Throughout their many difficulties, Lorelai and Christopher teach viewers that you can't allow yourself to be pushed into a situation that isn't right for you. Lorelai's parents advocated for Lorelai and Christopher to get married from the time they were sixteen. Rory always wanted her parents to be together and Lorelai knew that. She wanted to please her family and friends and kept running back to Christopher, despite the situation often being wrong for her. Just because it's what other people want doesn't mean it's right for you, which Lorelai ultimately realizes.

7. Lorelai and Luke: Patience can lead to great outcomes. 

The classic "will they, won't they" relationship. I personally find it to be one of the best friendships/romances in the show. Luke is always there for Lorelai and Rory and he obviously cares so deeply for them both. Viewers watch Luke fall in love with Lorelai, despite the fact that he has to stand aside as she goes through several other relationships. Eventually, viewers get the satisfaction of Luke and Lorelai getting together after many, many years.

Luke and Lorelai's relationship teaches us that being patient and waiting for the right time can lead to something great. Luke was patient with Lorelai throughout the entirety of the show as he waited for her to figure her life out. He stood by her and supported her and Rory through everything, and finally, he got his shot at happiness with Lorelai.

8. Rory and Paris: Find people who push you to be your best. 

If I could reinvent myself as one person, it'd be Paris. Yes, she's a bit crazy, but the motivation and power within that girl are INCREDIBLE. She and Rory found themselves to be enemies, friends, enemies again, then frenemies, and finally friends again throughout their education at Chilton and Yale and beyond. They went through a lot together but throughout it all, Rory and Paris were always there for each other.

Paris continually pushed Rory to try new things, to put herself out there, and to be her best. Paris taught viewers that though it can be a little headstrong, it's important to find friends that motivate you to become your very best self.

9. Lane and Mrs. Kim: A tight grip can build a great bond.

Here we have another mother-daughter relationship, yet this one is unlike that of Lorelai and Rory and Lorelai and Emily. Lane and her mother, Mrs. Kim have an interesting bond. There's no doubt that Mrs. Kim is strict, viewers can easily see that through Lane's collection of hidden interests and a closet full of a world that Mrs. Kim doesn't agree with. They have completely opposite personalities and it's clear that Mrs. Kim runs a strict household and wants to keep a tight grip on Lane. She's clearly the "mean mom" of Stars Hollow.

Though it may seem that Mrs. Kim is way too strict on Lane, we can see throughout the show that Mrs. Kim just wants the best for Lane, always. She teaches viewers that a tight ship builds a bond of trust and love. Though she is undoubtedly very picky and hard on Lane, everything Mrs. Kim does is out of love. And in the end, we can see that it all worked out as Lane grows into a strong and successful woman. Because of this, Lane and Mrs. Kim grow to trust and love each other.

10. Rory and Lane: The right friendships can be lifelong. 

The OG best friends. Lorelai once described how the two became friends when Rory went to kindergarten and we see throughout the show that this friendship sticks. Through breakups, weddings, babies, and everything in between, Rory and Lane are always there for each other and connect as if no time has passed.

The beautiful friendship between Rory and Lane taught us that their lifelong friendship is just that: lifelong. They find themselves in very different life situations throughout the years but they are always there for each other just as they were in the beginning. It's different for every friendship, but if you find yourself with the right people, friendships can most certainly be lifelong.

11. Kirk: Be true to yourself.

Yes, Kirk gets his own category. He has a relationship with everyone in Stars Hollow and he is pretty much everywhere all of the time, he has even said that he has had "like 15,000" jobs, and viewers are lucky enough to see 62 of them. Kirk is pretty quirky and has something new to offer in every single episode. But he can teach us all a great lesson: be true to yourself. Kirk never changes and is always just as weird and goofy as he was when we first met him. He doesn't let anyone get to him, he is always just Kirk and he is happy being who he is.