As a second-year student, I can definitely say the adjustment to college is over, and I've learned a ton about myself from my first year. Here are just a few things I've learned from this year:
1. One test really won't kill your grade.
While that doesn't mean you shouldn't push yourself, it just means that performing poorly once isn't the end of the world as you know it.
2. Finals aren't actually that terrible.
Manage your time, set realistic goals, and you will succeed in navigating finals.
3. Asking for help doesn't mean you're less capable; it means you prioritize your success.
There's nothing wrong with that.
4. Food from home beats any dining hall ever.
Because dining hall food is terrible. Mom's home-cooking though? Incredible.
5. School is hard, and it's totally okay to be frustrated about it.
Sometimes you just have a rough week--too many exams, too many plans.
6. Breaks are the best.
Being home with the family with no tests to study for? The best.
7. You learn a lot about yourself.
You figure out how to learn from your mistakes your first year and grow as a student and as a person.
8. You figure out the friends who have your back.
This goes beyond people you lived with in your first dorm or had Freshmen Orientation with. People will fade away with distance, but those to stick around are likely going to be your crew for the remainder of your time.
9. You realize you're half way done with your bachelor's degree.
It went by so quickly! And you lived through four sets of finals, all the rough times, and have more great memories to make.
School is tough, but you've already come so far by your second year. You're finding success in yourself and learning from your mistakes. You'll come back stronger year after year, and when you look bad, this time in your life will be one of your proudest moments.