The amount of times I’ve heard negative comments about guys is ridiculous. Even though guys don’t speak the same language girls do, there are quite a few things I’ve learned from having guy friends.
1. Say what you really think.
Guys are brutally honest, and sometimes the truth hurts. Hence, why they get called jerks. I’m not saying rudeness is the answer, but I learned to say what I want without being afraid of disapproval.
2. Don't care what others think.
Not only did I learn to speak my mind but I also learned not to care what others think. Being around guys taught me that not everyone is going to like you, and unfortunately, you can’t please everyone. So, do as you want and live your life.
3. It's every man for themselves.
It’s pretty funny because girls go to the bathroom together, girls get ready together, and girls seek external validation from one another. On the other hand, guys are incredibly independent, and true masters of I can do anything on my own.
4. Own extreme confidence.
You know what’s tragic? The number of times guys get turned down by girls BUT, never have I seen one give up. In a weird-twisting way, I'm always amazed by how sure of themselves they are. Guys are honestly brave; they work up the nerve to talk to the cute girl, knowing they may get turned down. After being around them, I can surely say I've learned from the best and no longer fear making the first move.
5. Guys can REALLY eat.
This is my favorite thing about being around guys. I never have to feel ashamed of my food intake. Nothing makes me happier than comfortably grabbing another slice of pizza or having dessert before/after my meal. So, who cares who watches, dig in and enjoy.
6. Guys do have a big heart.
Guys do have a big heart for those they love. Everyone has their way of demonstrating they care, from what I’ve noticed guys will deliberately invite you to places/spend time with you to show it. In the end, regardless of what people say, I don't believe all guys are jerks and honestly if your guy friend(s) cares about you, you’re a lucky gal with a loving and protecting friend.
