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What I've Learned From Being in a Long Term Relationship

I'm thankful for you every day.

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What I've Learned From Being in a Long Term Relationship

After being in a relationship for over three years, there's a lot I have learned. I have learned to maneuver the many difficulties of a long-distance relationship as well as discover new things about my boyfriend each and every day. We have seen each other at our absolute best and worst, and just about everything else in between. We have been with each other through the stupid drama of high school and the long-distance that going to two different colleges brings. We have spent days on end with each other and have gone as much as two months without being together. But no matter what the issue, no matter what happens, no matter how long it has been, we always come out stronger and better than we were before.

After being with someone for so long, you begin to notice things that you maybe overlooked before. Like the way their brows crease together when they're focusing really hard on something, or how their eyes light up when they're talking about something they love. I notice little things like this every time we are together, and it never gets old. It is truly amazing to be able to grow together without having to be constantly side by side, which is definitely something I've grown to appreciate after going to college and being apart for long periods of time. It's always difficult to spend time away from each other, but the moment I see him again, it's all worth it.

I've learned to never take any time you have with each other for granted, because you never know how long it'll be until you see them again. It could be a week or it could be a month. I've learned to not waste time looking through Instagram or texting my friends while I'm visiting on the weekend, and to take in every second I can. When we're together, I have learned that it's ok to chill out on the couch and watch movies all day, but it's also important to get dressed up sometimes and go out on dates every once in awhile, too.

I've learned how to really care for someone and put my all into a relationship. From deaths in the family to taking care of each other when we are sick, we have learned to be there for each other when we need it most. I've learned when to be silent and just listen, and I've learned when to speak my mind.

I'm so thankful to have a relationship that has lasted so long with someone that I care so deeply about and love so much. I have enjoyed every moment of our relationship, and there is not one thing I would change or do differently. I am so blessed to have you in my life and get to know you and love you for all of your little things.


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