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Leadership Shouldn't Be An Intimidation

Doing good shouldn't be an obligation.

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Leadership Shouldn't Be An Intimidation
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Growing up with two parents, siblings and a great amount of friends and extended family members, I was a very fortunate child. My parents provided me with everything I've ever needed and wanted. I was blessed with good health, a good environment and great experiences. As I grew older, it became clear how fortunate I have been with the life I was given. Many people I have encountered have faced hardships and challenges that I cannot even imagine going through. Encounters like these have opened my eyes to my blessings, and have given me the opportunity to give back to those in need of support.

For about 10 years now, I've been fundraising for children with cancer after a close person to me passed away from an inoperable brain tumor. From that experience, I have come across an abundance of families who went through a similar situation, and I made it a priority to give back to them. Since then, I have hosted several events and participated in others, to raise money and awareness for Pediatric Cancer Research and local families. It is inspiring to see others volunteering and contributing to great causes, as well as the gracious families who share their stories.

Leadership and volunteer work has become a part of me, and I intend to keep it as an important part of my life. The feeling that I get when being active in the community fills my heart, and reminds me of how much of a roller coaster ride life can be. The people I have met started out with many blessings in their lives, until tragedy struck. The help and support that giving communities provide these people with makes things a little easier, and life a little brighter.

I sometimes find the generation behind mine feeling forced to give back to those in need. It's upsetting that people sign up on websites for volunteer opportunities last minute just to meet a requirement or to build a good resume in time for the application process. Leadership should come easy. Now, I don't mean skill wise because any new experience takes time to develop. But, giving back should be something that one should want to do; it shouldn't be forced. It's understandable to be a bit uncomfortable in the beginning; being around the ill or disabled, those struggling financially, or those who need consoling. But as mentioned before, new experiences take time and practice.

So next time you see a Facebook post about a person in need, share it. When you have spare time, volunteer. Show those who look up to you how to bring value to your blessed lives. And most importantly, be grateful, be courageous and think of others' journeys.

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