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Ladies: We Hear You Too

Dating today is just as hard for us as it is for you.

Matthew Restivo
Dec 13, 2016
Mercy College
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Ladies: We Hear You Too
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I was reading an article from another content creator about women in their twenties having issues with guys like the Netflix and chill, texting I am here etc. Fair enough I get the where she is coming from, and it is also an issue. One thing she did say was demand better. Rightfully so, you should, but as a guy I demand better as well. Being a guy in this dating world is so hard. I am expected to go through hoops, make the first move etc. I honestly tried to take a girl on a nice dinner date and was rejected. Fair enough I was but the point is that prince charming you want to see at your door, calling you etc is out there. Unfortunately he has either not matured yet or is trying to, but cannot. I really want to take a lady out to dinner, maybe a movie, talk get to know her and see where things go. I will text you I am here so you know but I will meet you at your door, walk you to my car and open every door. At dinner I will get you your seat, and be a civil man at the table. I'll take the bill for spending time with me too. How hard is doing that these days. Very hard.. even for guys. Either we are both males and females hard working; at school, studying abroad, or countless other excuses for normal civil dating. We are more concerned about swipes, likes, looks and superficial things. I would love to take a beautiful woman out but also in the process get to know her. Ladies, do you not agree?

I can message someone and they never message back after a day of talking, I am always worrying about if this is a catfish, maybe a troll. Also I wonder if this girl is just as serious as me. I have been caught between a triad of men for one girl also. Honestly I had more positives meeting people off of YikYak ( crazy stuff ) than Tinder or Bumble combines for a whole year. And I used YikYak for three months.

Ladies.. we, the prince charming's, are here, we are hard to find as we are looking for you in this crazy dating world. We want the same things, we want to show our ladies off, we want to take you out and best of all we want to get to know you cause you might not be the one but also our best friend in the end too.


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