Some of my friends are in relationships and some aren't. But everyone knows a major key to a good relationship is trust. However, there are some girls (and guys, too) that just flat out do not trust their significant other and it's just embarrassing. Here is just my two cents on those ladies who can't seem to trust their boyfriend for their life.
If you don't allow your boyfriend to have any friends besides you... that is just torture. How do you expect him to be waiting around for you 24/7 and not have ANY other friends? When you're gone, what do you expect him to do? Twiddle his fingers until you come back?
And the one time that he decides for himself to go out for a weekend with his friends, you get pissed and ignore him. How are you gonna go and make your boyfriend feel guilty for wanting to have fun because you don't trust him?
How do you expect your relationship to last when you're constantly that paranoid? OK, yes, you deserve the right to ask what he's doing when he isn't with you, but when he mentions he is with other people and you get mad, how embarrassing is that for him?
When you're yelling at him over the phone for him not telling you where he was or who he was with, that is singlehandedly the most embarrassing thing you could do for yourself. Sorry, I'm not sorry, but if you're going to get mad at your boyfriend for wanting to have friends other than you because you're afraid everyone wants him, then you need to get a life.
Honey, if your boyfriend isn't Zac Efron, not everyone is trying to pounce on him.
I'm just saying, loosen up your totalitarian leash on your boy, and let him have fun. If you can't trust him to be around other girls, then your relationship is not going to last. If you really care for him and want your relationship to last, learn to trust him. If he's a good guy, you can trust him to be faithful and respectful towards you.
Stop embarrassing him and yourself and learn to trust him. If you don't grow up, he's going to grow distant.
