I recently read another Odyssey article about feminism and the creator wrote, "We are not equals," referring to men and women. I wouldn't consider myself to be a raging feminist, but something about this irked me... at first.
The creator continued to state that men are more physically capable, while women are more mentally capable, so in turn, we are not equal. I agree that men and women are not equal, but then again, NO ONE is equal.
I think a more accurate statement would be that men and women are not the same. I don't see a need to put every human into a distinct group when relating to equality. We have grown as a nation to reduce the inequality and in order for it to be gone, we all need to make an effort to stop relating every situation back to it.
Feminism has been a popular topic of conversation lately and I'm OK with that. I think everyone has the right to believe in what they want and should express their beliefs, but know the time and the place.
Class is not the place to lecture other students about what you think is right or try and force your beliefs onto them. Work is not the place to lecture other coworkers. People have very different beliefs from one another and that is a beautiful thing. We are free to believe in what we feel is right.
Another beautiful thing is the right to free speech, but don't abuse this right. No one wants to be lectured when they least expect it. Are you really going to change your views because you see a social media post, hear someone preach on campus, or listen to a student vent? Most likely not.
Protests are the place to fight and be as passionate about your beliefs as you please because everyone around you is there for the same reason.
I use my voice when it directly relates to a situation. Being singled out when around the opposite gender, or any other group for that matter is what pisses me off. Every human deserves the same treatment and the same respect no matter their gender, age, race, religion or origin.
I am a strong, independent female and for that reason, I don't feel the need to express my feelings about inequality aloud. Actions speak louder than words. The ones who believe that men and women are unequal are the ones who don't deserve your breath.
I believe in proving myself and working harder than another person (not just a man) in order to be more respected, earn more money, and make more of an impact.
Fight for what you believe in, but know the time and the place for these fights. Sometimes the more you say, the less it means. Speak when the message will be respected and taken to heart. Always be true to your beliefs, but remember that they are your beliefs.