Why Paying It Forward Is A Step In The Right Direction | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Entertainment

Why Paying It Forward Is A Step In The Right Direction

A simple act of kindness goes a long way.

13
Why Paying It Forward Is A Step In The Right Direction
Huffington Post

"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around." - Leo Buscaglia


Eighty degrees, windows down, radio up, and all I want is a Frosty. I promise the Frosty is relevant. As I sat in the long Wendy's drive thru, I saw another car pull up behind me. Inside an older mini van I saw, a lady, slowly maneuvering into the line as she struggled, reaching for something and continued to talk and entertain her young child in the backseat. I do not know who she is. I will probably never see her again. I did not speak to her. But, none of that was necessary. Something inside me reflected on my life and inspired me to be kind. It's that simple: kindness. I ordered and told the lady at the window, I'd be paying for the van behind me. I sat my food in seat beside me, took a glance at the mother and child and drove away. I did not see their reaction. I do not know what they ordered. All I know, is everyone wins from compassion. People generally aren't used to kindness from strangers. Most of us are too wrapped up in our lives to pay much attention to anyone else. But, the next time you're feeling overwhelmed, helpless, or under appreciated, take a moment and remember the other seven billion people on the planet. You, a regular person, can do the smallest of things, to make a difference. Don't always expect something in return, but I promise that good karma exists.

Create a ripple effect of generosity.

This simple act, if done enough, will contribute to bigger causes like war and inequality. It's all about the process and growth of peace and unity.

"What goes around comes around" and "treat others the way you want to be treated" are sayings preached to me since I was a little girl. For as long as I can remember, I've tried to embody those messages, putting my best face forward. Don't get me wrong, I make mistakes, I gossip, I do negative things that contribute to hatred. But, what did I benefit? What did the person I was criticizing benefit? Nothing. Why not spend our lives spreading happiness by even an effortless smile? I am opening my mind and seeing that being a cold person is not who I am meant to be.

Pay it forward, because you will feel an emotion like no other and the world will reward you in its own way.


"No one has ever become poor by giving." - Anne Frank

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
cousins
Bailey Totten

I've known you your entire life. More than likely I held you in the first three days of it and at least one of us cried. Cousins are truly one of the best things in the world and while sometimes I complain about how many people crowd Grandma's living room on Christmas Eve, I wouldn't trade you all anything.

You are my best friends, the only people who can understand what it's like on Thanksgiving, and you are the spunkiest people I have ever met. But you as so so young, most of you are just now starting your adventures in the public education system. I mean, I'm so very young too. I'm not married, I don't have children, heck, I just started my adult life, but I do want to give you what little advice I have. My dears, these are the things I want you to know.

Keep Reading...Show less
ORHS Graduation
Kristen Sack, ORHS Graduation

You are a senior in high school, you have made it to the final year that you have been looking forward to since the first day of freshman year. Whether this has been the worst or best four years of your life, appreciate it. You will never have these times back, you will never be in high school again. It is hard for someone still in high school to wrap their brain around, but there will be a day when you wish you could be in the shoes you're in right now. Here are 15 things I have learned being in college that I wish I knew as a high school senior:

Keep Reading...Show less
one tree hill
Wikimedia

Everyone, and I mean everyone has heard of the show "One Tree Hill". Many people think that this show is the best thing they've ever watched and others won't bother watching it because they know they'll get hooked. And yes, I know many people have written about this show before, but I couldn't resist. I could re-watch every season multiple times to the point where I can almost quote an entire scene. Trust me, once you start "One Tree Hill", you will be hooked. There's way too many reasons to list as to why you'll love this show, and these are just a few.

Keep Reading...Show less
Health and Wellness

5 Ways To Bring Positivity Into Your Life When All You Want To Do Is Drown In Self-Pity

It seems like life has been serving up more bad than good and in all honesty, the only thing you want to do is crawl under your covers and hide from the rest of the world.

2151
5 Ways To Bring Positivity Into Your Life When All You Want To Do Is Drown In Self-Pity
Photo by Kinga Howard on Unsplash

The first two weeks of classes have come to an end and they have been anything BUT easy. It seems like life has been serving up more bad than good and in all honesty, the only thing you want to do is crawl under your covers and hide from the rest of the world.

Although this seems like the best solution, it is also the easy way out. Take it from the girl who took basically a whole week off from her life because she just could not handle everything that was being thrown at her. This caused her to feel extremely lonely and even more stressed out for being behind in classes that JUST began.

Keep Reading...Show less
friends

1. Thank you for being my person.

2. Thank you for knowing me better than I know myself sometimes.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments