Why Do We Judge People On Their Aspirations? | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

Why Do We Judge People On Their Aspirations?

Society paints this clear-cut picture of what life is supposed to look like, but is there really only one?

46
https://www.pexels.com/photo/silhouette-of-person-walking-1046896/
Pexels

Is the idea that you go to school, find a great job, a significant other, settle down, and switch off having BBQ night with your in-laws every other week in the summer? Well, sure, for some people, it just might be that. But, why every time someone says they're not sure, or they're taking a different path or career, do we decide to show our concern through looks of uncertainty and groans?

I mean, honestly, someone's goals, interests, or ideas are that odd and minuscule to you? That person's goals, interests, or ideas could potentially move mountains one day. You may not see it, but they sure do believe it.

I recently wrote about becoming an affiliate for Bang Energy. This company gives opportunities to so many people like myself that just want to show the world their passion while being inspired in return. They have groups of dancers, Bboys, and shufflers. My goal is to dance for them, and working my way to that point isn't going to be easy, but I know deep down it's something I've wanted to do for so long.

This is such an important thing for me right now, and I'd hope that those around me would feel the same way, but that's not the case at all. I get a lot of reserved looks, comments, and the rest of the negativity that comes with stepping out of your comfort zone.

Where it stings most is getting it from family. Most of my family is seriously psyched for me and the opportunities this could present, but to others, it's all just a ruse or pointless.

Sometimes, your goals aren't seen as interesting to other people, or attainable, but the truth of it all is that, at the end of the day, your thoughts are really all that matter. People are going to judge people that go against the grain and search for something a little different in life. It's hard adjusting yourself to the criticism, but when you find yourself at the top, it won't matter.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

196683
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

18722
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

460773
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

28252
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments