It's Just There | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

It's Just There

I Wrote This Article and Compared Sadness to Many Physical Pains in Hopes of Making Some Understand That Being Sad Isn't Easy to Forget or Abandon, it's Just as Serious.

13
It's Just There
Photo Courtesy of Author

No one chooses to feel sad most of the time. No one asks to be sad. More importantly, no one is content with being sad.

What being sad feels like on the inside goes somewhat like this...

Being sad on the inside is like coming out of your home after a major hurricane and seeing everything destroyed. There feels as if there is no sense of hope and no possible way anything can go back to normal. Your happy to have made it through the storm, but you're devastated at what it has done. You just can't stomach it.

Being sad on the inside is like being confined to a room with a bad sickness. You want to get out of bed and participate in daily routines but you just can't get out of bed. Your body won't let you get out of bed. All you want to do is lay in bed and hopefully get better. You hope tomorrow will be the day.

Being sad on the inside is like looking out of the window on a rainy and dismal day. Your feelings match the weather. None of the animals are coming out, not even the sun. It's raining consistently and the sky remains a dark and mysterious color.

Being sad on the inside is like having a cast on your leg. You want to go at the same speed as everyone else but you physical restrictions disagree with you. You try and catch up and fight through the pain but no matter what, you just can't.

Being sad on the inside is like speeding on the highway. Your going so fast that your heart is racing and your adrenaline is pumping. You don't know why you're getting so nervous but you just do.

Being sad on the inside is like getting called out of class by the teacher. Your heart sinks because your brain automatically assumes your in trouble. You can't help but feel how your stomach is in your feet and your heart is where your stomach should be. You don't know what you did wrong.

Being sad on the inside is like dropping your laptop in water. You don't know why bad things happen to good people. They just do.

My point being is that sadness can be hopeless, debilitating, dark, confusing, and riddled with anxiety.

Being sad occasionally or having a prolonged sadness (aka depression) isn't treated with the same understanding as all of these physical attributes listed above. People assume that someone who is sad can just get over it or avoid it.

Except the thing is, sadness can't just be avoided or pushed away. For whatever reason, it's just there.

That's the problem, it's just there.



Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

179408
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

6541
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

452020
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

23025
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments