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Iskra Lawrence Reminds Us That Bodies Don't Define "Real" Women

"No physical feature (or lack thereof) can define what makes someone a "real" woman."

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Iskra Lawrence Reminds Us That Bodies Don't Define "Real" Women
Janelle Bendycki

The phrase “real women have curves” is constantly thrown around in our society, and I personally think it is exclusive and not completely accurate.

After seeing an inspiring Instagram post by body-positive model Iskra Lawrence a few days ago, this idea was once again brought to the forefront of my mind.

An important point that Iskra makes is how a body doesn’t have to have (or not have) any particular features or attributes to be considered real or to be body-positive. Bodies don’t need to be toned and smooth to be real, and bodies also don’t need to have rolls or cellulite to be real. All body types are capable of being real, and what’s important is embracing the bodies we have for what they are instead of shaming someone for the body they have or striving to have a body that isn’t ours.

When we start labeling only one category of body type as “real" women, we start making the body positive movement exclusive, which is unfortunate because there is room for all women at the body positive table! I am proud to have friends of all shapes and sizes, and I find them all beautiful. Some of my friends are thinner, and some of my friends are heavier, but the size or shape of their bodies isn’t what makes them “real" women, it’s the authenticity and vulnerability with which they lead their lives that makes them real.

In the words of Iskra, “your body is the vessel that your magical soul lives in.” By embracing our natural bodies and celebrating them for what they are, regardless of how they compare to anyone else’s, we are able to let our souls shine through, and our souls are what make us “real" women, not our physical bodies.

While it is true that thin privilege definitely exists, and thinner bodies are definitely more positively looked upon by society than larger bodies, that doesn’t mean that those women can’t be “real” and body-positive too. No physical feature (or lack thereof) can define what makes someone a “real" woman.

By inviting all types of bodies equally into the movement, we are able to strengthen the reach of body positivity by helping the world realize that body positivity is for anyone and everyone who is willing to be authentic and vulnerable in their words and actions.

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